2nd Trimester

*radiantstar's update* (get mad if you want)

Boyfriend SAYS this...
- Everything I heard, isn't true.
- The person who tipped me off, doesn't like him... which is true.
- I shouldn't care what anyone else says. 
- He'll spend more time with me and my family.
- He's not friends with her anymore.
- If she pops back up and starts trouble, he'll take care of it.
- He's never said the baby wasn't his.
- He spends every night with me.
- Everything he does is for the baby and me.
- He'll do whatever it takes to convince me that he's wants to be here for me and the baby.

 I SAY THIS...
- I want to trust you but you've broken my trust before.
- Until I feel more stable in trusting you, I'm not moving in with you.
- Until I feel more stable in trusting you, my body is off limits.
- IF she pops back up again, she's getting swatted like a fly!
- IF she starts trouble, he chooses her friendship or our relationship. No in between.
- If he chooses her, he'll regret it everyday.

I also told him, people who talk too much are generally guilty!
End of story.

Re: *radiantstar's update* (get mad if you want)

  • Holy Crap - I missed something.

    I was cheated on by previous husband (long time ago and far far away...). It really messes you up. The woman was a "friend". Trust your instincts. Even if his intentions are honest hers are most likely not if that is the vibe you are getting. Women know these things. 

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  • Good way to break it down.

    Well girl, if he means it, he will prove himself. And you have to decide for you if thats what you want. 

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  • You should try and get him to do some kind of relationship counseling- it will help you regain trust, and build a more stable relationship for when the baby comes, since if things are rocky now, they will only get worse. 

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