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BFN on 13 dpo...

I am so frustrated. We did IUI on 6/8 so I am 13 dpo. Is there any way that it will magically show up tomorrow as a BFP? The Dr. instructed me to test tomorrow and if neg, then stop progesterone and AF will come.

I'm feeling really discouraged today.

02/08 BFP resulted in m/c 4/10/08 (11 weeks)
10/08 Clomid Cycle #1 = m/c 11/7/08 (6 weeks)
03/09 Clomid Cycle #2 = BFN
3 rounds of Femara + Ovidrel + IUI =BFN
10/18/09 2nd Break Cycle (post HSG) before IVF #1 = BFP!

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Re: BFN on 13 dpo...

  • There is still a possibility...it isn't over until AF shows.  Do you temp?
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  • That's the thing...I'm on progesterone suppositories which keeps the uterine lining intact unless you stop taking it.

    I don't temp because I couldn't figure it out a long time ago. I use a CBE fertility monitor and this month on IUI, everything was timed (meds and Ovidrel injections) so I know I ovulated on 6/8.

    I suppose there is always hope for tomorrow, but I'm worried it's going to be a BFN again.

    02/08 BFP resulted in m/c 4/10/08 (11 weeks)
    10/08 Clomid Cycle #1 = m/c 11/7/08 (6 weeks)
    03/09 Clomid Cycle #2 = BFN
    3 rounds of Femara + Ovidrel + IUI =BFN
    10/18/09 2nd Break Cycle (post HSG) before IVF #1 = BFP!

    ? The world thought I had it all, but I was waiting for you. ?
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    Labor Buddy to Megjr8
  • I can understand that.  It is always disappointing to see a BFN.  All you can do is hope and realize if it isn't positive that you have a fresh new cycle ahead of you.
  • True. We are not thrilled about spending more money for another cycle of IUI, but maybe the next one is meant to be and this one wasn't.
    02/08 BFP resulted in m/c 4/10/08 (11 weeks)
    10/08 Clomid Cycle #1 = m/c 11/7/08 (6 weeks)
    03/09 Clomid Cycle #2 = BFN
    3 rounds of Femara + Ovidrel + IUI =BFN
    10/18/09 2nd Break Cycle (post HSG) before IVF #1 = BFP!

    ? The world thought I had it all, but I was waiting for you. ?
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    Labor Buddy to Megjr8
  • I hope you get a positive tomorrow.  There is still hope.  Some women just metabolize the hormone quicker, so they need a higher concentration to get a bfp.  Maybe thats it?  stay positive, and good luck
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  • imageMrs.EmmaLouise:
    I hope you get a positive tomorrow.  There is still hope.  Some women just metabolize the hormone quicker, so they need a higher concentration to get a bfp.  Maybe thats it?  stay positive, and good luck

    this! GL tomorrow!!

  • Hang in there, you're not out this cycle yet! GL tomorrow!
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  • imagewannabmommy:

    imageMrs.EmmaLouise:
    I hope you get a positive tomorrow.  There is still hope.  Some women just metabolize the hormone quicker, so they need a higher concentration to get a bfp.  Maybe thats it?  stay positive, and good luck

    this! GL tomorrow!!

    This! You're not out yet - keep hoping!

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