TTC After a Loss

Some people are just RUDE!

So I went to my class for the Billy Graham Witness training thing..  And one of the ladies at my church has been looking at me like she wants to ask the question "are you pg".  She had graciously not asked in the last couple days.  Well today was different...

She said to me "People at church are saying you look pg again." I said "really".  She said "Ya they all say you look pregnant."  At this point I felt like saying "well you can tell them I said they all look stupid for asking that question.."  But I refrained and said " You can tell them that Im just fat.  Being pregnant twice in a row like that and losing baby Grace tends to make people stress eat and YES I have gained ten pounds."

JERKS!  Mind you I am 5'10" tall and weigh 170.  Yes I am a few lbs over weight but anyone that has been in my shoes could completely understand why.  I am trying to lose 10 lbs, but havent been very successful yet.  I wish people would just keep their traps shut unless they have something nice to say.

*sigh*

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Re: Some people are just RUDE!

  • Haha go you!
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  • Who says that kind of stuff to someone?  I think you should've said your first thought- that they all looked stupid.
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  • This is my response to HER!!!

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    This is my response to HER!!!

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    I am going to print this out and carry it with me and show it to the next person that makes an ignorant comment..  Thanks Alice for making me smile!

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    imageabartane:

    This is my response to HER!!!

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    I am going to print this out and carry it with me and show it to the next person that makes an ignorant comment..  Thanks Alice for making me smile!

    :: breathes big sigh of relief::

    As soon as I hit "post" I realized that it might not be appropriate in the face of a billy graham event.

    Glad it helped.  I'm thinking of having a poster made.

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  • That is SO RUDE.. you handled it much better than I would have
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  • i'm with alice... WOW... WOW WOW WOW... i had someone tell me that i looked like i'd gained weight and people that have asked if i was pg... the last time someone asked if i gained weight, i started crying... she'll NEVER say anything again...
  • I think I would have said that it wasn't very Christian of them to be gossiping about you. The fact that they actually asked you makes it even worse.
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    I think I would have said that it wasn't very Christian of them to be gossiping about you. The fact that they actually asked you makes it even worse.

    Thats what I was thinking.  And the worst part is that I have to sing tomorrow morning at church and now I will be all paranoid that they are looking at me and talking about me.  Grrr..  So aggravated...

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    imagecowgirl:
    imageabartane:

    This is my response to HER!!!

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    I am going to print this out and carry it with me and show it to the next person that makes an ignorant comment..  Thanks Alice for making me smile!

    :: breathes big sigh of relief::

    As soon as I hit "post" I realized that it might not be appropriate in the face of a billy graham event.

    Glad it helped.  I'm thinking of having a poster made.

    Dont worry about it.  I am a christian but I can still find humor in things.. LOL..  Im not an old fuddy duddy...  Like the women who asked if I was pg..  J/k.  I didnt find it offensive.  I would just tell them to shut up, and leave the other word out.  LOL

     

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  • Good for you for telling them how you feel Lynn! 

    P.S. no one should be able to notice 10 lbs except for yourself (we're usually our own worst critics)

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  • I just wanted to say that being 5'10" and 170 is no where near overweight. They can F' off. 
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  • imageabartane:

    This is my response to HER!!!

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    BAHAHAHHAAHA I love this! 

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