new, bummed to be here but thankful there is a 'here'

happydragon

hi guys. Im hanging out over here after seeing no more baby in the sac at 10wks on ultrasound last tuesday. We saw a hb at 6wks so we were pretty shocked. I was sent home with misoprotol and im still trying to recover from that. I am exhausted. Also in a sort of hazy heartbroken numb depression waiting to stop bleeding and get back to normal. Our baby was a surprise, I was not supposed to be able to get pregnant (or at least without help) due to a very crooked cervix. We have been planning a September 5 wedding for over a year now and plan on ttc on our honeymoon.

Just wanted to introduce myself since I will be lurking over here.

ACM1616

Sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board, the ladies here are fabulous.  You will find loads of support here.

traceandrob

Im so very sorry for your loss. I would highly recommend the Pregnancy Loss board if you're not quite ready for the TTCAL board.

Time was the only thing that helped me. I couldn't even think about getting pregnant again for at least a month. Im ready now, though i still have many sad days. ((hugs))

happydragon

thanks. i felt like i was super positive and going to make it through this super postive and not let it get me down and we were going to try again and remain positive.....I'm only oh about 11 days into this and this week with going back to work, i have taken a nosedive and crashed. I am trying to just go with this rollercoaster but holy crap its hard.

happydragon

the loss board is too much for me. I like being here because its so positive and hopeful and proactive. but i will probably go back and forth.

hopingwaiting

Welcome.  I am so sorry for your loss, but I am glad you found this board.  The ladies on here are very helpful and supportive.  Early on, I also bounced back and forth between the M/c/PL board and here depending on my mood.  Some days I needed one more than the other.

knelli

I am so sorry for your loss.  Feel free to bounce back and forth between the boards... thats what I did and it really does help.

traceandrob

happydragon:

the loss board is too much for me. I like being here because its so positive and hopeful and proactive. but i will probably go back and forth.

I understand. I had moments too where the loss board was too much. Everything was too much, and i couldn't believe the website i loved so much i had to stay away from. I am almost 3 months post m/c and it is still very hard, but nothing compared to how it was in the beginning. I was also a regular on Getting Pregnant for almost a year....and i still can't go back on.

Best of luck to you.

Jacquiemark

I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome! The women on here as well as the mc/pl board have been a great support. 

Addicted2thenot

I am sorry to hear about your loss... welcome to the board

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding, how exciting!

PeetiePie

So sorry for your loss.  I'm glad there is a "here" too!  Welcome

myafoo

It's nice to meet you, despite the circumstances.  I hope you find that this board is very supportive during this trying time.  Good luck to you and I hope your stay here is short & sweet.

momagain2009

So sorry for your loss, welcome to the board.  I think you'll find everyone here very supportive.  I bounce back and forth between the two boards but also find the loss board overwhelmingly sad sometimes. 

The ladies here are very encouraging and keep it light and entertaining.

wannabmommy

I'm so sorry for your loss.