anyone else super-clingy with DH/SO?

starcolls

i am not usually but lately i have been having these awful fears that something is going to happen to him. and i need to be around him ALL THE TIME when we are home together. to the point where he was supposed to go to my brother's last night to stay over since they were going to the US Open early this morning and i was sobbing that i didn't want him to go. um, i will see him tonight.

i think i am just super hormonal lately lol.

AMYfromKY

Nope.  When he is going somewhere I always tell him to be careful now, but I'm not really clingy at all.

iuplori

I don't have that big fear of when we are away, but I def. prefer to be with him rather than apart.  I have to go out of state for two weeks on Sunday, and I'm sooo not looking forward to being apart. 

llggx2

I kinda have the same fears & I know I cannot do this w/o him but I am not really clingy, he would kill me!

sara_smile

I know how you feel! Yesterday DH had a dentist appt and I almost asked him to reschedule it because I wanted him to stay home with me! (I'm guessing this is probably because I stayed home from work sick yesterday so I had all day to think about how much I missed him!)

rcollier_17

I'm not that bad, but I do miss DH a lot in the evenings. He has class 2 nights a week and then works 1 night and I feel like I never see him. I hate it!!! It's not usually bothered me in the past but now all I want to do is be home with him.

neonvicki81

Before my hubby went to his AT I kind of was. After two weeks of being basically all by myself, it kind of alleviated that. I had no choice in the matter.

It is totally understandable that you want someone there, and you get worried. Make sure you talk to your hubby about this, but allow him to have some alone time too. When the baby comes, you'll have very little alone time!

mrs_sherod

I'm not really clingy, but I always want him to be extra careful when he's out.  I try to always tell him I love him when he leaves.  I def understand though.  I got like that sometimes pre-pg.

PizzaBride

Yes!  My DH has been super busy with work lately so when I get home from work he usually goes into the office and works until past the time when I go to bed.  We hardly even eat dinner together anymore.  The other night when I was going to bed I cried because I missed him so much.

madalynnsmommy09

YES! I have been like that since BFP, I just feel the need to be close to him all the time.

Samantha82

Yes!  I wasn't always this way.  But my anxiety surrounding DH started while we were over in India.  Things are just a lot more uncertain there, and more dangerous.  There were times when I could not get a hold of him for hours because the cell phone coverage was so bad.  He was also traveling a lot, and if something happened to him who knows if I would even be contacted, and I would have no idea what to do in a situation where he went missing.  It was horrible. 

It got even worse after the terrorist attack (we were living in Mumbai at the time).  I was visiting family back in the US and he was over there.  Couldn't get a connection to India for hours.  I had no idea if he was ok, since I knew he was at a conference in one of the hotels that day.

And I've had a hard time getting over it.  So I still get anxious here if he is traveling or I'm away for some time, even though I know it's 100x safer here in the US.

TarheelsInNJ

I have had a few instances when he was on the way home and didn't answer his cell phone and I got nervous. But lately, I'm more clingy in the "pay attention to me, spend time with me" kind of way. I feel like we haven't had a lot of quality time together, and with all of my emotions running wild it makes me feel lonely!

Jessica-Kay

Very clingy! I'm not too sure what else it could be besides hormones!.