Me: So DH, what do you want to do on Sunday? Have lots of family time or lots of alone time?
DH: Um, well what are we doing on Saturday?
Me: Um, I'm throwing the baby shower, and we have a bbq at our house that night. (Lots of eye rolling here, I've been planning this for MONTHS and he is just clueless)
DH: Well, I guess alone time since I'll be all "peopled out" from Saturday.
Me: Um okay, really?
DH: Yeah, why, what's Sunday?
Me: It's Father's Day!!!
DH: Oh, father's day?
Seriously ladies, I have the world's most clueless husband. WTF?
Re: My convo with DH
Tales of the Wife
11 months
Not to make light of it, but the other extreme is a husband who is hyper controlling and demanding and has to have everything just so.... Just ask any woman married to a man like that and she'd probably swap you in a heartbeat.
My husband is somewhat like that too - just really laid back and goes with the flow. Sometimes, when I think something is really important, he fails to see what the big fuss is about.... I'm sorry you are frustrated though.