Ready to kill my ex-sister-in-law

Andrea&Mike

So I get a text message from my friend that throw me the shower to check my facebook posts. I go online and see my ex sister in lawn posts a comment on my status which reads exactly "Hey, Ida  is embarrased.  She wanted to get you the changing table and can't afford it now.  She felt awful that you announced "thanks" to her mistakenly at the baby shower.  You guys need to talk.  She feels terribly like you are expecting a gift she can't give you. Thought you'd wanna know." My Mother in law is Ida. But my ex sister in law wasn't there and wasn't invited. At this point I am furious not at my mother in-law but my ex sister in-law for posting something that is personal on such a public place. So I call my husband who call his mother and she never said anything of the sort. she hasn't even talked to her sons ex wife about the shower or anything else for that matter in a month or so. My husband said that his mother was just as upset as I was about her comments. I so want to call her on the phone and tell her off but I can't because there are kids involved.

I am just in aw that she would say anything at all not to mention post such a thing on my facebook wall so I look like an a-hole. My husband thinks she is just trying to get attention since no one has talked with her since the divorce.

 

Thanks for listening to my rant.

jlynnr87

Did you delete it? At least that way no one else will see what her dumb a$$ put!

beccabec

Sounds like it is time to block someone from Facebook.

mrsmel

how would telling her off effect any children? i'm confused there.

although my advise is to just delete the post on fb and forget about it. don't give her the satisfaction of feeling like she caused drama.

Temp534591562502098

delete it and de-friend her now!

missbryn

You don't look like an a-hole at all - she does. Really - mistakenly thanking someone is not a big deal (if that's even what happened). Posting someone else's embarassment and finances is a big deal. First, un-friend her or do whatever you need to so she can't post on your page. Then ignore her.

How is she your ex-SIL? DH's brother's ex-wife?

sam19

I'd be pissed to. Even if it was true, if I was MIL I wouldn't want everybody on your facebook to know that I can't afford a changing table. That's more of something that should be discussed in person and not over the internet.

JenniferTCU

She sounds lovely.

pharmacygirl

sugrfrejaz:

delete it and de-friend her now!

this!

sweetyface77

Seriously your ex sister-in-law is a twatwaffle.  My suggestion is just delete the posting from your facebook and defriend her. 

NManger

I would just delete the comment and block her. Then I would send her a message saying that it was inappropriate to post such a personal matter online and that she should have messaged you if she was concerned.

Hotomale

Sounds like she's trying to involver herself in family matters - she's bored and needs attention, but don't feed into her.  Do like pp said and delete her comment, don't address her at all.

And, how sad is this that the twatwaffle comment made me hunry for waffles... 

Andrea&Mike

I have deleted the post and defriended her. The kids are my niece and nephew and my husband are in the will as there legal gaurdiane if anything were to happen to them. Not to mention I love my neice and Nephew and wouldn't want her to give her any reason for her not to want them around us.

mfransdell

Andrea&Mike:

I have deleted the post and defriended her. The kids are my niece and nephew and my husband are in the will as there legal gaurdiane if anything were to happen to them. Not to mention I love my neice and Nephew and wouldn't want her to give her any reason for her not to want them around us.

Don't bother bringing it up, she just wants attention. It's real life MUD!

mamaariel

Has anyone else had to delete comments and friends as much as I had during my pregnancy? Maybe I just have no tolerance for stupid people and stupid comments now that I'm too busy trying to prepare to be a mom...but either way...good job deleting it and defriending her...you don't need to wonder what someone is putting on your FB wall when your busy doing other stuff to get ready for LO.