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texasmedflight

WOW! First of all I would like to say I was super shocked to look at your responses and see how rude some of you can be. But, seeing as how I jumped in this post room with no intro I guess I could see how you feel.

First off, my m/c was BLAH! It sucked big time! This was the second one and feel as if my body isn't my own and there is nothing I can do to make it right. My first m/c was on Nov. 6, 2008 at 7w2d. I started with light  bleeding that turned into small clots and then a total m/c that I ended up bleeding so bad I had to go to Plano presby and call my gyno. I took it really hard and it scared me bad because I thought it would never happen to me. I've always been healthy and never had any real health problems. I went to group meetings with other ladies who have m/c in Addison where I lived up until Dec of 08. They helped me have positve thinking about my body and help me realize its not my fault. Having a m/c to me is the good man up high telling me there just wasn't something right. You guys can believe what you want about my 2nd m/c but all I have to say about it is that it happened, it sucked, im sad, pissed at my body, and you name im probably feeling it in my whirlwind of emotions...but, sitting around and crying anymore than I already have isn't going to do me any good. I have to be strong and go on trying.

Now, about myself and my life with my husband. We are newlyweds that live in Justin. My husband has lived here for 5 years and I just moved in when we got married in December. I am from West TX and went to school at Central High...grad year 2004 at 15. I graduated early to start college sooner and get my undergrad quicker....that didn't work out because when I moved to Dallas I didn't study and ended up taking 5 and a half years to finish my undergrad. Which by the way I just graduated. UNT class of 09. I have my degree now in Biology(BS). I am going back to school this summer to take a few more chem classes and make it a double major and another degree in chemistry. That's my school background. My husband on the other hand works on two ranches. He runs the ranch we live on and also runs over 10,000 acres between Celina and Justin where we live at. So, for all of you who wonder why I am all over the place that's why. I usually meet him for lunch at Randy Whites in Frisco a couple times a week. My gyno is also in Frisco at Cent. OBGYN. along with my dermatologist and acupuncture doc.

My husband and I wanted to start our family soon after marriage because he has two older boys that are leaving the house age and he is 41 so we don't want to wait forever to have the family we want together. Our m/c in Nov was not a planned preg but we were super pumped about it. So, this time when we planned it and I failed to stick at only 6w2d I was heart broken...but seriously what can I do. I don't want to give up already and shut down in tears!

Anyhow....I don't want to waste anymore of your time but sorry you ladies took my post as a joke I really am. I hope now maybe somebody will come up with some advice because that's what I was hear for along with meeting new people with babies on the way and/or younger babies so we could all meet people that could be friends for a lifetime of growing.

Thanks, Misty

PS...I just figured out how to add my pics from my camera to my computer. I will try to get them on here in the morning if I have time. I have to take my husband to work again. I have been hauling him around for 2 weeks since he just got out of neck surg.

zoology2

hmmm....speechless....

caroline:)

Hi Misti. I'm really sorry to hear about your m/c, and that you didn't feel support from us here. I haven't been on much the past few days, so I must have missed all the drama!  I know sometimes people can get a weird vibe from posts, and I'm sure that's what happened in this case. I hope you will continue posting and let us know how you're doing.

Jessibell

I just want to ask...

We are such a great, super supportive group...

We were very harsh, but why did you have no interest in defending yourself??

Where have you been?

texasmedflight

I haven't been online until last night, to even try to defend myself. I have taken my husband to work everyday for the past two weeks because he had neck surgery at carrell clinic in dallas. He rolled a horse when we did our spring gathering of cattle and hasn't had the best of luck with recovering....this is his 3rd surg in 3 months. We leave for his work in Frisco at 4 and get home about 4 in the afternoon. I have a computer room up in the office at our ranch but by the time I get home I'm usually to tired to go up there and to lazy to boot up my laptop in the house. So, anyhow.....I've become more and more interested in the bump site since I got prego the first time and wanted to continue meeting and learning about life as a mother. I just didn't know I was going to be bashed with my short posts and non introduction. See you guys in the DFW room.....and once again. Sorry if anyone got the wrong vibe about me. I'm more than open to sharing my life story.

lizzyjames

First, thank you for posting.  This is an open online forum and we have all become rather close and "know" each other.  Your initial posts raised some red flags and with the influx of weirdos running around it's easy to be scared and question your legitimacy. 

Knowing some background information helps.

Two:  I apologize for being rude.  Again, most of us just want to protect the ladies who may not be aware of how easy it is to decieve others online. 

I'm truly sorry about your miscarriage.  I don't have any advice about TTC (trying to concieve). 

My OB was also at Centennial.  https://www.friscoobgyn.com/  These ladies are a wonderful group and extremely supportive.  Good luck.

lizzyjames

Oh and no more italics, please.  You are banned from posting in italics forever.

texasmedflight

Gotcha on the italics....I took my laptop to work with us today and my husband is feeling left out with me on the computer, LOL.