TTC After a Loss

Path report in.

Inconclusive :(

Figured as much but it is a major bummer.  So blood work showed nothing, pathology was inconclusive.  So we get to keep trying until it works.  According to the doctor there is nothing wrong - I just have crummy luck.  Not knowing what keeps happening really makes me not want to try again.  I feel like it will just keep happening again and again.  I do not know how many more times I can go through this.

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  • That is incredibly frustrating.  I'm so sorry that the results didn't give you any better feelings about TTCAL.

    Take care.

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  • ((hugs))

    I am so sorry that you didn't find anything. Hopefully it is just that, crummy luck and your next baby will be your sticky baby!

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  • I'm sorry. I know those results are bittersweet. My OB says he thinks we just had "bad luck twice" too. I am still waiting on RPL b/w to come back though. He ran it all because he thinks it will make me feel better. I have mixed emotions about TTC again. Some days I am all about it and some days I am terrified.

    I hope you find the strength to move forward in time.

    Oct 2008 m/c #1 5 weeks, May 2009 m/c #2 4w5d. BFP 6/23/09 EDD 3/8/10!
    You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. -Eleanor Roosevelt
    After 1 year of TTC#2 BFP May 2011 m/c #3 4w2d. Off to RE.

    Round 1: Femara + Ovidrel +TI = BFP! EDD 2/20/12
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  • I'm sorry. That has to be frustrating. Hopefully it was just crummy luck and you'll get your sticky baby soon!  ((hugs!))
  • Dang it Amy!  I am so sorry you didn't get any answers!  I know it's hard right now. Hang in there and I am here if you need anything!!!  (((HUGS)))
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  • I don't know if this is something you can ask your Dr, but before I m/c'd the Dr. talked to us about potential pregnancy problems and she mentioned how some people who have at least 2 m/c's might just need progesterone for the first trimester.  I don't know if it is something that you need or not, but it might be worth asking about. 

    Hope that you get a sticky baby soon and have a H&H 9 mo.  Sorry that you have to go through all of this!

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    imagejen-dale:

    I'm sorry. I know those results are bittersweet. My OB says he thinks we just had "bad luck twice" too. I am still waiting on RPL b/w to come back though. He ran it all because he thinks it will make me feel better. I have mixed emotions about TTC again. Some days I am all about it and some days I am terrified.

    I hope you find the strength to move forward in time.

     My RPL showed nothing.  I am glad she did it (she did it also just to make me feel better) but it not showing anything was just has upsetting.  I am so not good with her bad luck answer.  Everything happens for a reason right?  So there has to be a reason!!!  Grrr... I guess I will never know.  I think I will try once more before giving up.  Then we will start to look into our other options.

  • I'm in the same boat. - no results, nothing wrong, no problems, no recommendations . . .on the one hand that's great - we're healthy, there are no problems. on the other hand this means that we are unlucky and one of the statistics. I know how it leaves you feeling helpless and wondering why - and what you can do now. I'm scared completely to continue trying, but know in my heart we want a family and are giving it one more shot. . . .it's so hard. we're here for you.
    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
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    imagesuntoto@gmail.com:

    I don't know if this is something you can ask your Dr, but before I m/c'd the Dr. talked to us about potential pregnancy problems and she mentioned how some people who have at least 2 m/c's might just need progesterone for the first trimester.  I don't know if it is something that you need or not, but it might be worth asking about. 

    Hope that you get a sticky baby soon and have a H&H 9 mo.  Sorry that you have to go through all of this!

     Yes, my doctor has suggested we try the the prog. next time.  She is very supportive and wants to try the Clomid to get us Oing the the Prog. for the first tri.  I think this is what is giving me the strenght to try once more.  I feel like atleast we will try something different this time.

  • abs711abs711 member

    imagemlmtgg:
    I'm in the same boat. - no results, nothing wrong, no problems, no recommendations . . .on the one hand that's great - we're healthy, there are no problems. on the other hand this means that we are unlucky and one of the statistics. I know how it leaves you feeling helpless and wondering why - and what you can do now. I'm scared completely to continue trying, but know in my heart we want a family and are giving it one more shot. . . .it's so hard. we're here for you.

    Thanks!  It really is comforting to know how many ladies are in the same boat as we are.  We all see these stories and hear about these woman who are having perfectly fine babies and get angry that we can't.  But that fact is there are a lot of us.  And everyday more and more come out of the woodwork.  I can't tell you how many people I have heard from since this happened that have share there losses.

  • So sorry hun. That has to be so frustrating. I sure hope things go great the next time around.
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  • I'm sorry. But you will get there. I promise!
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    imagesuntoto@gmail.com:

    I don't know if this is something you can ask your Dr, but before I m/c'd the Dr. talked to us about potential pregnancy problems and she mentioned how some people who have at least 2 m/c's might just need progesterone for the first trimester.  I don't know if it is something that you need or not, but it might be worth asking about. 

    Hope that you get a sticky baby soon and have a H&H 9 mo.  Sorry that you have to go through all of this!

     Yes, my doctor has suggested we try the the prog. next time.  She is very supportive and wants to try the Clomid to get us Oing the the Prog. for the first tri.  I think this is what is giving me the strenght to try once more.  I feel like atleast we will try something different this time.

    this is probably our next option. he thinks clomid will give me a stronger O and help with the progesterone - and supplements for an extra push.

    Oct 2008 m/c #1 5 weeks, May 2009 m/c #2 4w5d. BFP 6/23/09 EDD 3/8/10!
    You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. -Eleanor Roosevelt
    After 1 year of TTC#2 BFP May 2011 m/c #3 4w2d. Off to RE.

    Round 1: Femara + Ovidrel +TI = BFP! EDD 2/20/12
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