TTC After a Loss

Weekly "Check In" for TTCAL girls!

It?s weekly ?check in? time!  You can post here to let us know what?s going on in your life this week that you?d like to share with the TTCAL girls.  Are you testing? Anything big coming up at work? Is it FWP week for you? Doctors appointments?  Big plans with DH? Please share what your big plans are for the week! This way we can all be up to date with everyone?s ?happenings.?  Have a great week! Smile

-Cara

P.S. I'll normally post this on Mondays, but Tuesday will work for this week!

Re: Weekly "Check In" for TTCAL girls!

  • I should be O'ing sometime this weekend. ?DH and I are going to Salt Lake City on Thursday - Monday. I have a conference for work and since I can't waste a month of Clomid, DH took Friday and Monday off to come be with me! ?I told him his one job was to stay in the hotel room and wait for my meetings to be over so we can make babies. ?I was totally kidding... mostly....
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  • I think I O'd yesterday, but we're not really trying this cycle or next cycle, since we're going to JAMAICA in July!  So my ttc news will be lacking in the next few months. 

    On a personal note, we have a fun weekend coming up.  My best friend and her husband are coming in to town from Harrisburg this weekend...a friend's bachelorette party Friday night, then Saturday night the four of us and two other couples are having a cookout at our house then going to a Pirates game, then Sunday we're going to a baby shower.

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  • This is my first week of summer break for me!  During the year I teach 2nd grade but it's S-U-M-M-E-R now!  Woo hoo!  I'm going to head to the gym, relax, and read some books this week.  We have plans to go to a "Party in the Park" down by the river on Wednesday if it doesn't rain and then on Friday it is the 3 year anniversary of DH and I's first date. So we always go to dinner at the same place where we had our first date:  The Spaghetti Factory. Yum!  And if I can talk him into it, we'll probably get a Blizzard afterwards too!  Smile
  • DH and I have a big week coming up (if you count it from Monday) Ha. We will be closing on our house in Ft. Worth on Monday the 15th!!! We are so ready to get rid of the house after it being on the market for almost a year.

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  • Nothing too exciting here this week. I am 4 dpo and will be testing next monday at 10dpo. On friday my store is participating in relay for life and so I get the pleasure of working all day and then attending relay all night long! Whew! I guess that means I may be sleeping my weekend away!

    ps: thanks Cara for doing this!

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  • imageKateAndMark:

    DH and I have a big week coming up (if you count it from Monday) Ha. We will be closing on our house in Ft. Worth on Monday the 15th!!! We are so ready to get rid of the house after it being on the market for almost a year.

    Yay for selling the house! I'm sure that was stressful!  Are you in your new house yet?

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    Nothing too exciting here this week. I am 4 dpo and will be testing next monday at 10dpo. On friday my store is participating in relay for life and so I get the pleasure of working all day and then attending relay all night long! Whew! I guess that means I may be sleeping my weekend away!

    ps: thanks Cara for doing this!

    Woo hoo! GL on Monday!

  • CD9 ... looking forward to FWP week and praying this is our cycle. Otherwise next month I'll go back to dr and discuss other options (clomid, etc). This will be our 2nd cycle TTCAL but since he dx'd me with PCOS he said he'd try other options sooner.

    Nothing exciting this week. Always too much work - I wish I was a teacher; I could really use a summer break.

     Have a great week!

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  • great idea cara~!

    ~we are going to CA this weekend for stepson's grad.

    ~AF is on her way....see temp drop below.

     

     

     

  • Nothing too exciting going on here.  I had my CD2 blood work done yesterday and the results are slowly coming in.  So far everything has come in normal, except I tested positive for some virus.  After a little research I found out it's the virus for chickenpox (which I had as a child.)  I had a minor freak out. They should NEVER put herpes and chickenpox in the same sentence. Smile
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    imageKateAndMark:

    DH and I have a big week coming up (if you count it from Monday) Ha. We will be closing on our house in Ft. Worth on Monday the 15th!!! We are so ready to get rid of the house after it being on the market for almost a year.

    Yay for selling the house! I'm sure that was stressful!  Are you in your new house yet?

    We are just renting a house right now. I was hoping we wouldn't be in PA to long but it's not looking that's gonna be an option.

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  • Me and DH are going to use this coming up weekend as our Anniversary weekend and are going to hit Houston museums hard. (our anniversary is really the 24th but we are going to be OOT for father's day that weekend and the weekend after I should hopefully be on my period)  Still counting down the days till my Post opt >.< 7 more days til I can have sex again. Come on week let go by FAST!

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  • I O'ed yesterday, so now I'm in the crazy 2ww.  Have a Dr appt tomorrow for bloodwork to check progesterone (I decided to let them check it at cd21 like they want, but to request it be checked again at 7dpo... since that's when it'll matter)

    DH and I are going with his sister to see Wicked in San Antonio this weekend!  We took Fri off and now I can't wait.  Hopefully it'll make the 2ww go by a lil faster! 

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    great idea cara~!

    ~we are going to CA this weekend for stepson's grad.

    ~AF is on her way....see temp drop below.

    Stupid AF!  Hopefully CA will be a nice distraction!  Have fun!

     

     

     

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    I O'ed yesterday, so now I'm in the crazy 2ww.  Have a Dr appt tomorrow for bloodwork to check progesterone (I decided to let them check it at cd21 like they want, but to request it be checked again at 7dpo... since that's when it'll matter)

    DH and I are going with his sister to see Wicked in San Antonio this weekend!  We took Fri off and now I can't wait.  Hopefully it'll make the 2ww go by a lil faster! 

    OMG, I looooove Wicked!  I've seen it 4 times now and can't get enough of it!

  • My TTC news will be lacking too for the next 2 cycles, but after that, it's GAME ON!

    DH and I are going to have a little date night Friday. Saturday afternoon I have my SIL's baby shower, then Saturday night I have another Bachelorette party. Sunday I will most likely be recovering from said bachelorette party, hehe.

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  • I really don't have anything going on this week. Just kinda hanging around. Waiting for something I guess.
  • imagecarasizemore:
    This is my first week of summer break for me!  During the year I teach 2nd grade but it's S-U-M-M-E-R now!  Woo hoo!  I'm going to head to the gym, relax, and read some books this week.  We have plans to go to a "Party in the Park" down by the river on Wednesday if it doesn't rain and then on Friday it is the 3 year anniversary of DH and I's first date. So we always go to dinner at the same place where we had our first date:  The Spaghetti Factory. Yum!  And if I can talk him into it, we'll probably get a Blizzard afterwards too!  Smile

    Sounds like a really fun week. I have never been to the Spaghetti Factory but I am dying to try it.

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  • Not much going on here. I have counseling this evening. (Still talking about the loss of our baby and my mother in law in the same few weeks-yikes!) Getting ready to finish for the summer at work. I am an elementary principal and I have to work a few days after teachers leave. Looking forward to sleeping in and reading romance novels on my deck while DH works! We have a cruise coming up on the 27th that I am really looking forward to.
  • I have nothing going on this week. Boo! Just working and counting down until Friday. The boss is out this week, but I need to get busy becasue we have some of the big wigs coming in to give interegations.

    I think I am going to POAS on Sunday if all goes well. FF says I have not O'd but I am pretty sure I did and  I know my temps are screwing because of a lot of factors.

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  • imageMia07:

    I O'ed yesterday, so now I'm in the crazy 2ww.  Have a Dr appt tomorrow for bloodwork to check progesterone (I decided to let them check it at cd21 like they want, but to request it be checked again at 7dpo... since that's when it'll matter)

    DH and I are going with his sister to see Wicked in San Antonio this weekend!  We took Fri off and now I can't wait.  Hopefully it'll make the 2ww go by a lil faster! 

    Good luck this week and have fun!

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  • I'm just waiting for good 'ole AF to show up.  Yay for me.  Crying  No real big plans this weekend.  DH will be doing side jobs all weekend, so I'll be cleaning and hanging out with the pups.  :) 

    Thanks for doing this and hope you have a great week! 

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  • We have 2more nights of fwp this time. No flu or yi is gettin in our way this time baby! But if this cycle doesn't work out then we'll start clomid next cycle. Our ob had a good chuckle when "warned" us that there would be a possibility of twins and dh said "bring 'em on". But either way we're hoping the within the next few cycles something will happen. After almost 2yrs I'd settle for a false positive right now.
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  • Charting temps is making me nuts!  I thought I had O'd a day or two ago, had all the signs then a temp drop again this morning. I am so frustrated with my body right now I cant deal with it....  : (  I am really read for my temp to rise so FWP week is over, it has been stressful!  (look at my chart it is really messed up!)

    I have another dr appt on Thursday to get the results of last week's biopsy.  I am nervous about that..

    Other than that I am looking forward to Saturday.  My DD has her last meeting tonight as leader of the organization she is in.  And Saturday she will install the new leader..  We are soooooooooooooo happy about this!  The adult leader of the group has been a burr in my butt for the last 7 months and I am so glad I will no longer have to deal with her!  I really dont need the extra stress..

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  • oo!! I like this!

    Okay this week is pretty low key overall. My boss will be on vacation this week and we hired a new employee so I am putting together her welcome packet. I o'ed on Sunday, so I'm in the ole 2ww. DH and I are going to start planning what we will be doing for our anniversary next month (I am super excited for that). I think that's it for this week. Next week is pretty jam packed though!

  • DH and I decided to finish painting the "nursery" this weekend.  We started the week before I miscarried and the door has been closed ever since.

     Sad 

    FWP week begins soon....I stocked up on OPKs and will begin using them tomorrow.  So, that will be a nice distraction.

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  • I tested this morning (~12dpo) and got a BFN, so now I'm just waiting for my period to come.  :-p

     


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  • On the TTC front, I went in for my RPL tests today.  Since the m/c is ending as we speak, she couldn't do it.  I did pee in a cup, however, and got a BFN.  We should be good to go.  I'm supposed to call on CD1 to reschedule the RPL tests.

     

    On the personal front, this is my second day of summer vacation!  DH has vacation next week.  We are doing lots of projects around the house-including finishing the new floors in the future nursery.

     

    Great idea, BTW!

  • Thank you Cara for starting this. I too am a teacher, but I'm not done until next Wednesday! I'm so stressed I just want this to be over! Oh yeah, then I teach summer school. Swwweeeetttt.

    I am anxiously waiting to see if I get my period tomorrow. If it's not here by Friday morning, I will test. I was feeling so confident yesterday because my ute twinged and cramped ALL DAY just like when I was pregnant and today, nothing. I still have snail trail so I'm hoping for the best.

     This weekend I will be grading research projects. I will try not to pull my eyes out with rusty fish hooks, which sounds like more fun at this point.

  • This is a good idea Cara.

    I started temping last week to get used to it before next cycle, I'm CD 53 now and no AF.  My temps are pretty eratic, more so than I've seen on other's charts.  So not sure what that is about.  I have a doctor's appointment Thursday to start figuring out my long cycles.  I think I'm PCOS, but we'll confirm with blood tests then.  DH has his daughter here this week, so we took vacation and went to a water park yesterday.  Not sure what else fun we're going to do with her.  That's about it for me :)

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  • I will be testing on Saturday.  It would be perfect to get a sticky BFP this month, because Sunday is DH's big 30th b-day.  And the first u/s would be right around 4th of July, which is when my family is in town, so my mom and sister could come and see it.

    All that being said...I don't have high hopes for this cycle because O was so delayed due to the m/c at the beginning of the cycle.  Plus, FF thought I had already Oed, so we didnt BD until late on the actual day of O.  In the past I haven't had any luck with cycles like these.  :(

    Oh well.  There is nothing I can do about this cycle now but wait and see how it turns out!  If I am not pg this cycle, then we will just have to try again next cycle.

    Good luck to the rest of you ladies out there waiting to O or waiting for BFP!

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    My post d&c appt is tomorrow.  I can't believe it's been 3 weeks.  Just waiting on AF so we can start TTC again.
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  • Thanks Cara~

    I am about to O ANY DAY ~ so excited - the the 2WW THEN next cycle - hoping to be in the game.

    BUT I just got a gruff message from my RE saying he wants to talk with me tomorrow.  Crossing my fingers for news thats manageable.

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    My Doctor thought I was Ovulating around the 27th and that Friend would be here soon.  Still no such luck :(

    I am suppose to be going in on Thursday to get my pathology report.  However, I just noticed Doctor called my guess is to reschedule :(  I am 99.9% positive Pathology will not show anything but I still want to hear. 

    That's it nothing else exciting.

  • JenyMJenyM member

    this is a good idea.

    no news for me :-( waiting for af to start "trying" again...

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  • AF is here and brough with her some major cramps!  I hope she's gone by Friday.  We have a graduation party and then I get to meet my newest niece.  On Saturday we have another graduation party.
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  • I had my d&c follow up appt last Friday and dr said everything looks good. She wants us to wait until August to TTC. I'm actually relieved by this because it gives me some more time to heal emotionally. I'm a little nervous because we BD a few times the week before my appt. (My d&c was 3 weeks before my appt so I followed the directions that said to wait 2 weeks before having sex.) The dr said, "DO NOT GET PREGNANT!" So now I'm scared if I am she'll be mad at me. She said if I did accidentally get KU after my next AF it wouldn't be the end of the world but she really wants to give my body some time to heal. So now I have to figure out some sort of BC. H and I have never used anything other than the pill so I'm not sure what we are going to do.
  • I should be o'ing sometime next week (I don't chart but I usually have cramps and am very regular with it - assuming the last m/c didn't throw my cycle off) and tonight am going to talk to my DH about what he would consider "acceptable circumstances" to TTC.
    DH got laid off last week, but has already been rehired and starts next week. (Funding issues. *rolls eyes*).
  • I'm waiting for my body to get back to normal (7 weeks post D&C).  Had some spotting, but I'm anxiously awaiting o signs and a real AF so I can TTC again.

    In non-TTC news, packing for a move to a new house!  (Rental- I do live in LA where home prices are ridiculous.  I am addicted to HGTV and jealous of the home prices in the rest of the country!).

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  • AF finally showed up after mc..and Dr. said we can go ahead and try already this month. Other than that, DH's niece (10),nephew (14), and cousin (15) are all in town for 2 weeks so we've been running around taking them places and to the beach. And wow...it's been expensive!!

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