Thanks for the feedback below re: Virginia - the good, the bad, and the ugly.
I never thought DH would go for it, but when I put it on the table last night he didn't have the violent reaction to it that I was expecting. In fact, he actually seemed to maybe like it. OTOH, we were both always lukewarm about Maren and, while I still like the name, lately I just haven't been feeling it quite as much. So I took it off my list, added Virginia, and cleared the votes so that I'm back on even playing ground with girls' names. Vivian is still the constant - can you tell I like "V" names?
Anyway, please vote if that's your thing. I know our opinions are the only ones that really matter, but I always love feedback!
Re: Updated name list
I love the name Virginia. My DH wasn't crazy about it at all but I loved it. Good luck!