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Give us a break!!!!

myafoomyafoo member
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Sigh.............

I've only been officially on this board since Wednesday night and in the short period I've been here, there have been more new losses being announced than I could've imagined.  It makes me so sad.  Why can't the powers that be just cut all these wonderful women some slack, give us healthy pregnancies and make them stick?? 

 

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Re: Give us a break!!!!

  • JenyMJenyM member

    Agreed 1,000%

    You should have seen the month of May. It was ridiculous. Barely any BFPs and a ton of 1st and 2nd losses.

    BFP#1 missed m/c-d&c 10/27/08, BFP#2 BO-natural m/c 5/15/09, BFP#3 8/12/09-DS born 4/2010, BFP#4=TWINS-missed m/c&d/c 6/15/11, BFP#4 11/22/11- please stay with me
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  • KateAndMarkKateAndMark
    Isn't is something. NEVER in my wildest dreams did I know so many people went through this till I found the bump and this board.
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  • soontobemrsvegasoontobemrsvega

    imageKateAndMark:
    Isn't is something. NEVER in my wildest dreams did I know so many people went through this till I found the bump and this board.

    me too!! i went over the MCPL board yesterday i didnt know anyone on there!!

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  • nemattoxnemattox
    imagemyafoo:

    Sigh.............

    I've only been officially on this board since Wednesday night and in the short period I've been here, there have been more new losses being announced than I could've imagined.  It makes me so sad.  Why can't the powers that be just cut all these wonderful women some slack, give us healthy pregnancies and make them stick?? 

     

    It is really sad, isn't it?  I worked at an OB/Gyn's office as a receptionist in my early twenties, and I was shocked at how often this happened.  I remember trying to console people as best I could, really having no idea how they felt, and one day I spoke to the medical records clerk about it.  This was back when we kept all paper records, and she took me in the back to really show me how frequent it was.  On each chart that had suffered a MC/PL, the office had placed a black dot, just as an easy way to notify anyone who handled that patient's chart.  Literally, 70-85% of these charts had stickers.  She told me that day that the ones that didn't just hadn't had it happen yet. or hadn't even realized it had happened.  (This gave me shivers at the time, and I remember recalling it very bitterly when I started bleeding last month.)

    Anyway, I don't know why I felt the need to share that morbid story.  I guess it has been bothering me, too.

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