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REALLY stupid confession

redshoegirlredshoegirl member
in TTC After a Loss

DH and I haven't gotten it on this entire 2WW. At first it was just because we were tired from all the BDing, but in the second week I've been avoiding it because I don't want to knock something loose if it's in early days of implantation.

I KNOW this is stupid and illogical and ridiculous and irrational and if there's a little embryo implanted firmly in there, a vigorous bout of sex isn't going to shake it loose. I feel like an idiot, but my stupid side doesn't want to get it on until I know for sure one way or the other (for some reason, I'd be thrilled to get it on after a BFP - just not while waiting for one). I am totally embarrassed to admit this! Embarrassed

Luckily, when DH put the moves on me tonight, I sheepishly told him what I was thinking and he just cracked up laughing, then kissed me and told me it was OK, he could wait two days until after the official testing. Stick out tongue

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  • phillyandashleyphillyandashley
    Um, I'm the same way. I just haven't told DH lol.
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  • carasizemorecarasizemore member
    Count me in too!
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  • scooter999scooter999 member
    its not stupid! We all go to extremes because we want this so badly!
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  • happyhooplahappyhoopla member
    We all have our own little beliefs about what might help/hinder the TTC process; you're totally normal. I've flat out told DH that there won't be any sex between FWP week and either the next FWP week or the end of the first trimester. Smile
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  • Ruby_TuesdayRuby_Tuesday member
    Been there!  Done that!
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  • JenyMJenyM member
    that made me lol!
    BFP#1 missed m/c-d&c 10/27/08, BFP#2 BO-natural m/c 5/15/09, BFP#3 8/12/09-DS born 4/2010, BFP#4=TWINS-missed m/c&d/c 6/15/11, BFP#4 11/22/11- please stay with me
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  • GreenEggs&HamGreenEggs&Ham

    imagehappyhoopla:
    We all have our own little beliefs about what might help/hinder the TTC process; you're totally normal. I've flat out told DH that there won't be any sex between FWP week and either the next FWP week or the end of the first trimester. Smile

    what is the risk of BDing at the end of the first tri? Are certain weeks more risky? 

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  • MsZoeBMsZoeB

    This will be me to a T.

    When I got my BFP we hadn't had sex after our conception BDing. So I was nervous but decided to go for it 5 days after finding out I was pregnant. Well, hours later I was mc'ing. 

    You can't tell me that they aren't related!

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  • MrsEzStarMrsEzStar member

    Same here!  If I get KTFU, there will be NO sex in the champagne room!  Or any room for that matter.

    When I was pg, I always spotted a little after sex, but then one night it got a little crazy and I m/ced the next day. 

    The doctor said that sex didnt cause it, but DH already knows we won't be doing it the first tri when I get KTFU.  Too scared.

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