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MrandMrsAndrewsMrandMrsAndrews member
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My DH's bro is all about taking pics. ?And he is insisting that he wants to take pictures at the hospital...

Ewww...

And if he only brought it up once, I wouldn't think anything of it - but he keeps bringing it up! ?I don't like him much to begin with and don't want him to be around me during that time.?

Gross!?

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    mtenderemtendere member
    Maybe tell him he can take a few pics of baby after you are settled into your room and all cleaned up? ?Otherwise, just tell him you're not comfortable with that and don't want to talk about it any more.
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    mariannerulesmariannerules
    just tell him there is a hospital policy, and he can't be there for that.  telll him he can take pics of baby instead
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    mattandbekahmattandbekah
    does he mean during the actual birth? 'Cause then, yeah, that would totally skeeve me out.  If he means after the baby is born...I can see that.  I photographed my sisters birth, but after that I went with her DH and their baby and photographed his first bath, etc...and I can see where it would be cool to have your BIL do those pics.  Def not the birth though...not for a brother in law to see!
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    H4'sFanH4'sFan

    Hire a bouncer and don't put his name on the list!

    I would not have someone I did not particularity like in the first place anywhere near me on this important day.

    He also sounds creepy.

     

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    Liss_37Liss_37 member
    On a very weird note.. My last name is also Andrews (weird!) and my BIL has been acting weird too.. he kept insisting that I let him come to my 18 week ultrasound and then leave the room and tell the tech to tell him the sex of the baby (we dont want to find out) when we said on he didn't let it go. Maybe andrews men are just weird? LOL

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    Heather1979Heather1979 member

    Wow creepy.

    I'd tell him he's more than welcome to take pictures of the outside of the hospital, and when you are leaving the hospital. Otherwise he'll have to buy the rights to photograph you from you and DH for the lump sum of $1 million dollars. He's acting like paparazzi, treat him like it...

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