I'm sorry, I may have actually asked this question before, but can't remember the responses! Did you take childbirth/childcare classes? How far along were you when you took them? What about the maternity tour? Infant CPR?
What did you find most useful? I've just started looking into courses at the hospital I'll be at (Inova Fairfax), but it seems I'm behind the curve on this, as the only courses offered now seem to be towards the end of the pregnancy (the childbirth class we could do would end 2 weeks before my due date, unless we do the "express" one-day course).
Thanks for any info you can share!
Re: Childbirth/childcare classes?
I took the following four classes at Holy Cross Hospital: Childbirth/Lamaze Class (around 25 weeks), Infant CPR (at 32 weeks), Hospital Tour (at 33 weeks), Infant Care (35-36 weeks).
I thought all of them were very helpful and I definitely think it was worth the time and money for us. If you can't do everything that you want to, I would say to definitely do the hospital tour (this will help you know what to expect when you go in) and do the childbirth class if you can.
One of the primary benefits for me with the classes is that it helped to prepare DH. I have read tons of books, been on the message boards, and talked to a lot of friends but he has not had any of these preparations. So, I think that by going to the classes, it made him feel more empowered and helped him know what his role will be in the process of childbirth and infant care. It also generated a lot of good conversation between the two of us about how we would handle things. With that being said, there are many people who don't do any classes and they do just fine.
And as an FYI - some insurance companies will reimburse you for childbirth classes. If the insurance company doesn't reimburse you, you can then submit it to FSA so that at least it's pre-tax.
we only did the maternity tour and first aid/cpr. we both read books and I had taken an emergency responder class a few years ago that went in-depth about childbirth. while I was in the hospital if we had questions the nurses and doctors were willing to answer anything about what was happening or going to happen.