Adoption? My mom was just telling me how she got a letter from her health ins. stating that now IF treatments (IVF) were covered and even though she wasn't in the market, she thought it was good that they were doing this. So that got me thinking- if women can have help from insurance to have a baby using fertility treatments, shouldn't they also be able to have help from insurance to adopt too? I mean... that's also another way to accomplish the goal of starting a family.
I'm not sure what I think. I mean I kind of think it should be covered. I'm thinking- ok what about the skyrocketing costs of premiums already....
so, what do you guys think?
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Re: Here's a good debate: IF treatments covered by Ins, what about
It makes sense that if they cover IVF they should cover adoptions.
ETA - I agree with britt.
"When it comes to sleeping, whatever your baby does is normal. If one thing has damaged parents enjoyment of their babies, it's rigid expectations about how and when the baby should sleep." ~ James McKenna, Ph.D., Mother Baby Behavioral Sleep Center, University of Notre Dame
I don't think medical insurance should cover adoptions... but I think some employers have some adoption-related benefits. And insurance coverage for IF usually has limits (usually X number of procedures must lead to a successful live birth for more attempts to be covered.)
my mom just got a letter from her ins. (bcbs which is pretty big) that states they now cover IF treatments up to and including IVF procedures.
I have to disagree with this. It does not require medical treatment unless you want to have a family. Just like adopting, it is not required unless you want to have a family. In many cases, adopting would be cheaper for the insurance. I think there should be a cap and it should be paid out to IF or adoption services. My bf adopted, IF wasn't an option for her, she is just as entitled to family planning help as someone who had IF.
that makes a lot of sense. i DO think that ins. should cover IF stuff. i was actually shocked that my mom got that letter bc i thought IF stuff was covered anyway
Well said.
The number of medical issues which do not "require" medical treatment - but ARE covered - are too numerous to list. Your tubal ligation ... your IUD ... your husband's vasectomy ... your husband's erectile dysfunction ... your sore throat ... your physical therapy for a mild pain in your leg ... I could go on ... and on ... and on. If something is wrong with my knee - and I go to the doctor for treatment - it's covered. If something is wrong with my ovary - and I go to the doctor for treatment - that too should be covered.
"When it comes to sleeping, whatever your baby does is normal. If one thing has damaged parents enjoyment of their babies, it's rigid expectations about how and when the baby should sleep." ~ James McKenna, Ph.D., Mother Baby Behavioral Sleep Center, University of Notre Dame
This x 1000. I would hate for the idea of "choosing" to have a family be treated in such a cavalier manner.
yep totally.
This is the most rediculous thing I have seen. You are right, if you don't want a family it's a non issue but it is a woman's right to have a child and if her or her DH did not have a medical condition, they would be able to just like everyone else in this world. Since infertility is a medical condition, it is rediculous that it not be treated just like any other condition. It's like saying Chemo is only necessary if someone wants to live.
TTC #1- unexplained...lost left ovary 4/07 IUI #1 2/10/09-BFN IUI #2 3/5/09-BFN IVF # 1-BFP
TTC#2- FET 4/7/11 BFP, Natural mc 5/5/11 IVF#2 ER 9/13/11, ET 9/16/11, Beta #1 9/27/11 BFP 254 Beta #2 9/30/11 793 -Twins!
TTC #1- unexplained...lost left ovary 4/07 IUI #1 2/10/09-BFN IUI #2 3/5/09-BFN IVF # 1-BFP
TTC#2- FET 4/7/11 BFP, Natural mc 5/5/11 IVF#2 ER 9/13/11, ET 9/16/11, Beta #1 9/27/11 BFP 254 Beta #2 9/30/11 793 -Twins!
Wow, are you spoiled.
^ this exactly. It is so very difficult to not only have to deal with being IF, but then you have to some how come up with thousands of dollars just so you can be on a level playing ground. For the people who either choose to adopt, or are forced to do so, I believe they should have the same type of insurance coverage.
I wanted to say thank you to all the women who "stuck up" for all of us Infertiles out there...