?It doesn't help that my DS has a head full of BEAUTIFUL brown curly hair. I am having a hard time not wanting to get it cut. We are waiting until after his birthday next month.
My MIL told me she is going to in two weeks when she watches him for the weekend cause he will look better for my SIL's wedding. I made my DH have a big talk with her. She has boundary issues.
If she does it so help me God....
and I agree with pp...if anyone did this I would be mad.
can I just say WOW! that blows and that is totally overstepping boundaries. I don't think I could ever trust her again. ugh... does she have any pets? a cat? a dog? take them to the groomers and get them shaved bald and see how she feels.
My MIL told me she is going to in two weeks when she watches him for the weekend cause he will look better for my SIL's wedding. I made my DH have a big talk with her. She has boundary issues.
If she does it so help me God....
and I agree with pp...if anyone did this I would be mad.
Does she have to watch him? Can you find an alternative babysitter? I wouldn't let her watch him anymore. If she has boundary issues, will she even listen to what DH told her? I wouldn't trust her and I wouldn't leave him in her care. If that was my MIL I would tell her she lost my trust be even talking about it because she should know that it's a special moment that a parent and child should share in.
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I would flip Sh!t!!!!!!! I wont even let them take him to the park before I do it with him. I will miss enough stuff and if its in my control I will not miss anything.
i don't think my MIL would do this but I worry that my parents may SHAVE my daughters head to make her hair stronger. they did it to me twice when i was small but they felt my hair was kinky. I love the color, texture of my DD hair and i want it to be left alone.
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Re: Would you be pissed...
Yes, very much. I'd probably cry. Did this happen to you?!
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My Mom did this to me.
We had a verrrrrrrrrrry long talk about "boundaries" and "you're not his effing mother" and other necessary topics.
YES!!!!
?It doesn't help that my DS has a head full of BEAUTIFUL brown curly hair. I am having a hard time not wanting to get it cut. We are waiting until after his birthday next month.
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My MIL told me she is going to in two weeks when she watches him for the weekend cause he will look better for my SIL's wedding. I made my DH have a big talk with her. She has boundary issues.
If she does it so help me God....
and I agree with pp...if anyone did this I would be mad.
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this.
Normally I roll my eyes at these because they're petty and silly.
But this? No freaking way. I would be beyond furious.
can I just say WOW! that blows and that is totally overstepping boundaries. I don't think I could ever trust her again. ugh... does she have any pets? a cat? a dog? take them to the groomers and get them shaved bald and see how she feels.
Does she have to watch him? Can you find an alternative babysitter? I wouldn't let her watch him anymore. If she has boundary issues, will she even listen to what DH told her? I wouldn't trust her and I wouldn't leave him in her care. If that was my MIL I would tell her she lost my trust be even talking about it because she should know that it's a special moment that a parent and child should share in.
I didn't read any of the responses yet, because my first instinct would be to GO BATSH*TFU*KINGCRAZY.
Seriously, I would be so damn pissed.
Yes, I might have to lay the smack down if she did that.
(though my MIL can't really even be bothered with visiting my kids, so this wouldn't happen to me)
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