I'm seething..... My gma is a biitch!

Crazycrustacean · May 2009

My sister (9 years younger) had a m/c. It was ectopic, ruptured and she lost the tube.?

My gma said to her, "maybe it's for the best because it's not like you can take care of it."?

WTH is that? Who says that? Granted my sister & her dh aren't in the best of situations as far as $$ is concerned and maybe her dh isn't a knight in shining armor, but they're in love & married. And whose life is ideal for a baby to come into? I'd like to know.?

So I'm seething because of it. I feel so terribly for my sister for having to deal with my gma at all. ?

mrparsley07 · May 2009

That's terrible! I'm so sorry your sister had to deal with that!

sdkrlm · May 2009

that would really bother me!

steve&heather · May 2009

The fact that your sister isn't in jail right now for punching your gma in the throat amazes me.

wifey006 · May 2009

What a horrible thing for your grandma (or anyone) to say. I'm sorry for your sisters loss.

AB&TB · May 2009

Gma's can be the worst with hoof in mount disease. After my CP last month, my Gma said that she was relieved because the babies would have been too close together anyway. And that it was my fault because I was too tired taking care of Linc to get pg again. Nice, huh?

I am sorry that you and you sister are dealing with this. Sometimes people can be very mean.

Hugs!