I need to, after friday's doc's reiteration of 'no babies' talk to my OB

GBCK

the Uberheadache docs are, understandably, very conservative on when they consider OK to TTC--basically all meds make it onto their "don't try" list. 

(I will admit, I was a tad annoyed by the whole 'well,  you can suck it up for 9 months or you have no business trying' attitude.  Because, really, NO, I can't.  I'd be unemployed and suicidal.  Hell, the last time one lasted over 2 months, I probably qualified as having a 'drinking problem'.  But more than that, if I can't even *try* when on drugs, we're talking about me being in constant pain for several YEARS and potentially no payout.  Which I told them...but that's another discussion)

So the uberdocs are supposed to be sending my OB a letter of 'these are her head problems and our thoughts' so then I can see if my OB will approve something.

And I can't get ahold of the right people at the right times.  (I was at a funeral today and the viewings yesterday--that took up all my free time)  Every time I call either doc, I end up leaving a message.  And they call me back, and leave a message back.

The last message (my cell didn't ring, no idea why) was to tell me the release form (so they could send the letter) I drove 30 minutes to fax to uberdocs didn't go through apparently, can I send them again?

 I'm annoyed.

 

 

BadaBing327

*Hugs* I would be annoyed too. Hopefully you and your OB will be able to come up with a plan that works for everyone.

XXXXX222

I'm sorry, GBCK.

GBCK

it's frustrating.

I thought that when my 'aunt' showed off her kid to me today (not *really* hers, it belongs to her trashtastic teenage daughter--it's the 3nd one) and then passed it off to the  disturbingly pedophile leaning mentally handicapped 'uncle' to care for until they left.

 

gotta love family and how the fertility is spread around :-P

 

mrsc720

I am sorry that you are going through this. I am supposed to be on meds for pain but am off since I will be TTC soon. I also am everlastingly experiencing phantom symptoms so I am always afraid to take anything during the 2ww. I can't believe they told you that you should be able to suck it up! Hopefully your doc can find an alternative solution. I know my friend was able to take some things while pg b/c without meds she would be bedridden and/or hospitalized.