the other stupid question

BostonGayGal

What is the most important thing you?ve learned from a past relationship??Why would a woman want to ask such asinine questions? ?I think I am losing interest already. ?Any offers. ?I have a feeling that, 'single works' is not an appropriate response.?

ourbabylove2010

Bad kisser = Bad in bed...... if the spark isn't there 'up top' it ain't going to be there 'down below!'

BostonGayGal

Wow. ?That sounds more bitter than I intend. ?I just think that initiating communication with a question this 'big' stifles conversation more than it helps it.?

ourbabylove2010

Oops! Guess I learned a big lesson. Hope I didn't ruin it. Carry on the convo.

BostonGayGal

ourbabylove - no, not you! ?Me. ?I reread my own post and was surprised how mean I sounded! ?There is absolutely nothing wrong with your response!

No idea how to answer. ?Urgh. ?good kisser is v-e-r-y important

BostonGayGal

my answer:

I am going to cheat by listing a few of the biggies. Boys are gross (third grade). It makes no sense to date a bad kisser (high school). Falling in love is bliss (1998). Single also works (2003). Relationships are a shared commitment (2006). There is a massive difference between loving someone and being in love (2008). Love could be anywhere.?