Parenting after a Loss

I got NOTHING for Mom's Day :(

DH absolutely sux!  No card, nothing!  He said Happy Mother's Day.  That doesn't count.  It's not like he doesn't pass a frigign card store every single day coming home from work.  He ruined my first mother's day and I let him know it too!  I told him I'm done with him and he's on his own.  I'm not doing a damn thing for him anymore.

This just breaks my heart b/c he's such a great husband (usually) & dad and is usually very thoughtful.   But not today.  JackA$$.

So he now tells me he needs to run to the store.  For what?  Are you really going to get me a friggin' card now?!?!  I don't want it.  Keep it!!  You suck DH!!!!

Had to vent...thanks for listening.

Re: I got NOTHING for Mom's Day :(

  • I'm sorry.  Hugs.

  • neen01neen01 member

    oh no! sorry that wasn't the first mom's day you expected

    mh is horrible with holidays but I'm used to it by now, i don't think I have gotten a card in years, boys are funny

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  • aww. so sorry. I told mine this morning to get his ass out of bed b/c it's mothers day and we're doing whatever I want to do and he'd better have a good attitude about it. Then on fathers day he can do whatever he wants.
  • ((hugs)) I am sorry
  • Boo... that does suck. I'm glad you told him how you were feeling instead of letting it boil inside. ?(((big hug)))?

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  • ((hugs)) I'm sorry. ?I would be furious as well. ?Men can be so completely clueless sometimes, but that doesn't excuse them at all.


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  • i'm so sorry.  that definitely stinks.  i'd be upset too.

    for what it's worth, happy mother's day.  give your little guy an extra snuggle tonight and show your dh the couch.

    just sayin'.

  • I'm sorry.  I didn't either.  There are good reasons behind it, but it still bummed me out.  ::hugs::
  • Perhaps are DH's spoke, b/c all I got as he walked out the door was Happy Mother's Day!  I didn't want anything big, a card would have been great.  So like you my first mother's day has been ruined.  He had plenty of time to get me something.
  • So sorry! ?He definitely screwed up. ?Hopefully once you calm down you'll be able to forgive him. ?Remember - what's important is how he is on a day to day basis, not how he performs one day a year. ?Better to have a DH who is thoughtful 99% of the time, than one who is only thoughtful one day a year because he's "supposed" to be that way.
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    So sorry!  He definitely screwed up.  Hopefully once you calm down you'll be able to forgive him.  Remember - what's important is how he is on a day to day basis, not how he performs one day a year.  Better to have a DH who is thoughtful 99% of the time, than one who is only thoughtful one day a year because he's "supposed" to be that way.

    I agree. It sucks, but it's just one day.My DH does not have initiative, but would do anything if I ask him.

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