...or are there several posts every single effing day about who is 'allowed' to be on which board. It's strangely reminiscent of (and almost as annoying as) the daily 'when should I tell??' posts on 1st tri.
...or are there several posts every single effing day about who is 'allowed' to be on which board. It's strangely reminiscent of (and almost as annoying as) the daily 'when should I tell??' posts on 1st tri.
Just sayin.
This. Exactly. It's an effing message board, people.
...or are there several posts every single effing day about who is 'allowed' to be on which board. It's strangely reminiscent of (and almost as annoying as) the daily 'when should I tell??' posts on 1st tri.
Yeah and to be honest it doesnt really bother me where people post. As much as people hate first tri-ers being on this board...the same could be said of 2nd tri-ers posting on the first tri board as well.
I wasnt trying to be rude. I am out of first tri and would like it if I didnt see 8 weekers here all the time.
Isn't this kinda hypocritical for you to say though. I mean for all you know there are a ton of people on 2nd tri who are sick of seeing people where are more than 26w 6d. If you want to enforce the "rule" of only posting on your own trimester board, then you should follow it too.
I'm just pointing that out. I could care less about who posts on what board. It's all about the content of the post, not who's posting it.
(I personally like all the 3rd tri ladies who post on here, I'm just trying to make a point).
I wasnt trying to be rude. I am out of first tri and would like it if I didnt see 8 weekers here all the time.
Isn't this kinda hypocritical for you to say though. I mean for all you know there are a ton of people on 2nd tri who are sick of seeing people where are more than 26w 6d. If you want to enforce the "rule" of only posting on your own trimester board, then you should follow it too.
I'm just pointing that out. I could care less about who posts on what board. It's all about the content of the post, not who's posting it.
(I personally like all the 3rd tri ladies who post on here, I'm just trying to make a point).
If I chose to post on 2nd tri I can because I have already been through it. If you are in your first tri why are you answering questions you have no clue on?
I wasnt trying to be rude. I am out of first tri and would like it if I didnt see 8 weekers here all the time.
Isn't this kinda hypocritical for you to say though. I mean for all you know there are a ton of people on 2nd tri who are sick of seeing people where are more than 26w 6d. If you want to enforce the "rule" of only posting on your own trimester board, then you should follow it too.
I'm just pointing that out. I could care less about who posts on what board. It's all about the content of the post, not who's posting it.
(I personally like all the 3rd tri ladies who post on here, I'm just trying to make a point).
If I chose to post on 2nd tri I can because I have already been through it. If you are in your first tri why are you answering questions you have no clue on?
B/c it works both ways and you can't have it one way so it's okay for you and not okay for others. WHO CARES who posts where??? It's not our job to determine that and people don't have to be 12 weeks to have info about the NT scan for example, etc. Heck, someone mentioned earlier that a lot of the posts here aren't even about anything 2nd tri specific.
I wasnt trying to be rude. I am out of first tri and would like it if I didnt see 8 weekers here all the time.
Isn't this kinda hypocritical for you to say though. I mean for all you know there are a ton of people on 2nd tri who are sick of seeing people where are more than 26w 6d. If you want to enforce the "rule" of only posting on your own trimester board, then you should follow it too.
I'm just pointing that out. I could care less about who posts on what board. It's all about the content of the post, not who's posting it.
(I personally like all the 3rd tri ladies who post on here, I'm just trying to make a point).
If I chose to post on 2nd tri I can because I have already been through it. If you are in your first tri why are you answering questions you have no clue on?
Is there something that magically happens at 13w 3d that make me feel like I'm in 2nd tri? I guess I just don't get that argument. Everyone's pregnancy is different and progresses in a different way. And everyone does things, like u/s and buying furniture, at different times.
Sometimes I feel like I have a hard time relating to those women who are 23 or 24 weeks along. I have not had my big u/s yet, and my bump is not so big strangers are starting to notice or make annoying comments. But I'm still posting on 2nd tri. I don't understand why someone 5 or 6 or even 8 weeks would WANT to post on this board. But if they feel they can relate, maybe because they have had several miscarriages and have been on the 1st tri board for 6 months or because they have had kids before, then who cares.
Again. It's about the content of the post. Not the gestational age.
I wasnt trying to be rude. I am out of first tri and would like it if I didnt see 8 weekers here all the time.
Isn't this kinda hypocritical for you to say though. I mean for all you know there are a ton of people on 2nd tri who are sick of seeing people where are more than 26w 6d. If you want to enforce the "rule" of only posting on your own trimester board, then you should follow it too.
I'm just pointing that out. I could care less about who posts on what board. It's all about the content of the post, not who's posting it.
(I personally like all the 3rd tri ladies who post on here, I'm just trying to make a point).
If I chose to post on 2nd tri I can because I have already been through it. If you are in your first tri why are you answering questions you have no clue on?
I'm way late, but I had to say this. Obviously, this may not be EVERYONE'S first pregnancy. So they might have even more of a clue than you do, actually.
DD1: August 2009
DD2: December 2010
DS: August 2012
M/C 9/2013, 12/2013
DD3: October 2014 - April 2015 Miss you baby girl.
Yeah and to be honest it doesnt really bother me where people post. As much as people hate first tri-ers being on this board...the same could be said of 2nd tri-ers posting on the first tri board as well.
Re: Is it just me...
This. Exactly. It's an effing message board, people.
...and no matter what the board.
I haven't seen any today. ?But I haven't scrolled through much.
If you are refering to my post, please note that nowhere in that post did I tell anyone when they could, couldn't, should or shouldn't come over.
It was mearly informational.?
you are out of second tri too.
thumbs up, OP?
You are not alone. In my opinion, I dont care who posts where as long as they check the stupidity and 1st tri questions at the door.
LOL
And for the love of god, as long as they can spell.
Isn't this kinda hypocritical for you to say though. I mean for all you know there are a ton of people on 2nd tri who are sick of seeing people where are more than 26w 6d. If you want to enforce the "rule" of only posting on your own trimester board, then you should follow it too.
I'm just pointing that out. I could care less about who posts on what board. It's all about the content of the post, not who's posting it.
(I personally like all the 3rd tri ladies who post on here, I'm just trying to make a point).
If I chose to post on 2nd tri I can because I have already been through it. If you are in your first tri why are you answering questions you have no clue on?
B/c it works both ways and you can't have it one way so it's okay for you and not okay for others. WHO CARES who posts where??? It's not our job to determine that and people don't have to be 12 weeks to have info about the NT scan for example, etc. Heck, someone mentioned earlier that a lot of the posts here aren't even about anything 2nd tri specific.
Is there something that magically happens at 13w 3d that make me feel like I'm in 2nd tri? I guess I just don't get that argument. Everyone's pregnancy is different and progresses in a different way. And everyone does things, like u/s and buying furniture, at different times.
Sometimes I feel like I have a hard time relating to those women who are 23 or 24 weeks along. I have not had my big u/s yet, and my bump is not so big strangers are starting to notice or make annoying comments. But I'm still posting on 2nd tri. I don't understand why someone 5 or 6 or even 8 weeks would WANT to post on this board. But if they feel they can relate, maybe because they have had several miscarriages and have been on the 1st tri board for 6 months or because they have had kids before, then who cares.
Again. It's about the content of the post. Not the gestational age.
I'm way late, but I had to say this. Obviously, this may not be EVERYONE'S first pregnancy. So they might have even more of a clue than you do, actually.
This, to both pp's!