Anyone know the standard rate for in-home infant care in the NYC/Brooklyn area? As of now, DH and I are about 90% sure we're moving back to Massachusetts after the babe is born (where I'd be able to be a SAHM for the first year), but we've recently become really sad about leaving Brooklyn. So I'm trying to figure out what expenses would be if I went back to work in January.
TIA

Re: NYC moms-to-be
$15-20 hour maybe? I was recently laid-off and thought about doing some babysitting and asked around and was told $15-20/hr.
A full-time nanny may be different... check out www.care.com and see what the ads are saying
You could also take a look at sittercity.com and see what the rates are. My sister is graduating from school, and if she doesn't find a job in her field, she is considering doing nanny work. If it is full-time live in, some families pay up to $80,000 per year, but if it is part-time live at home, it is more of an hourly-based rate... I would say the $15-$20 ballpark is right.
My husband and I are planning on moving back near our family in South Jersey when our baby is born so I can stay at home-- I totally know your dilemma weighing living here with living exactly the way you want. It's definitely not easy figuring it all out!