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MrsStu
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I had no idea it would be that hard
MrsStu
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My chart was looking very promising and I was so hopeful that I was pregnant this cycle that when I got my period this weekend I actually cried. I had no idea it would affect me like that, but it did. And it doesn't help that AF is here with a vengeance. I haven't had cramps like this in quite awhile.
Ugh.
Here's to getting KU real soon! 
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Re: I had no idea it would be that hard
2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929
it's called a kilt, he's scottish
Wow, that must have been tough. I don't know how you were able to deal with the pain of it all.
4 WHOLE cycles?! Holy cow!
GL next cycle, Dear!
I can only see 1 full chart for OP on FF, so it's possible she hasn't been trying for long. My point was that she shouldn't get too disappointed because it can take many months to get BFP. We all know that no matter how long you have been trying seeing AF or a BFN is disappointing.
Maybe I'm being too sensitive about this, but personally, I don't think throwing out "4 cycles" was necessary. Seeing as how many girls have been trying for much longer than 4 cycles, I see it as rubbing it in. I don't think using "4 cycles" is really appropriate to show that it "can take many months." This may not have been your intention, and maybe I'm just being overly sensitive. But that's how I felt when I read your message.
And yes, I'm probably taking this way more personally than I should.
Thank you ladies, I appreciate the support.
Last cycle was indeed my first cycle trying. I didn't really have high hopes in the beginning, but I got really hopeful at the end and it bit me in the a$$.
So I've learned that this whole TTC thing is pretty stressful and that I can't get my hopes up no matter how good my chart is looking. And this will probably not be the last time I cry when I realize I'm not KU.
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