How are you and your little one adjusting?
My DS is starting daycare full time on Monday. He's 12 weeks old tomorrow. I took him Wednesday and today for a few hours so that the caretakers could get aquainted with him, and he with them. I've been in tears for a week. When I left him there yesterday, I was in tears. I feel soo bad. He's such a snuggle buggle. he loves being held and cuddled. I know that the caretakers won't have the time to hold him the way I do, or to give him that one on one attention and it absoutley kills me. I feel like he's scared I'm abandoning him and not coming back. I've convinced myself that he is more needy at home after being there...like when I leave the room I feel like he cries faster. I wonder if when he's there, if he's left to cry a little longer than I'd leave him. I know he's at a good facility and he's under good watch. I just can;t get used to the fact that other people are taking care of him when I feel it should be me.
So I guess I'm looking for advice/support from those of you who may be going through the same thing. I never knew it would be this gut wrenching.
Re: For those of you who have your LO's in Daycare
I won't lie, the first week was hard, especially the first day back. Stasa's in an in home daycare run by a friend, so I'm comfortable with her being there. Plus I was getting text updates every couple of hours the first week.
I think even with the dry runs, it's going to be hard when you go back for real. Just think of the big smiles you'll get when you pick your LO up. And you'll appreciate the time you have at night and on the weekends a whole lot more. GL!
BLOG THE BABY STANDARD FLICKR VIDEOS