I need to admit this.

stacynikki

I'm jealous of my BIL's girlfriend.  There I said it.  She's 10 years younger then him (7 younger then me).  She's cute and has a rocking bod.  MIL set up a girls night at my house on Thursday since DH is out of town and SIL is going to be in town.  She wants to plan a girls weekend in October with just us girls and moms (my mom and GF's mom).  I was happy when BIL's GF emailed to say she couldn't make it Thurs because she has a final.  And I know that I am mostly jealous because I'll be fat and pregnant on our girls trip while she's prancing around in her little bikini. 

Okay, now that I admitted it I'm going to start working on my immature behavior where she is concerned and start giving her the benefit of the doubt that she may actually be a nice kid..er, um...woman. 

xbrooklyngrl

lmao! Don't feel bad, I hate , fit, young, bubbly, cute, pretty...b*tches too.

I saw my neighbors 22 yr old neighbor leaving the house yesterday and thought "God, I hate summer" only because I have to see her being all cute and half naked.

pincushions

xbrooklyngrl:

lmao! Don't feel bad, I hate , fit, young, bubbly, cute, pretty...b*tches too.

 

ditto!

luckyluvr

I don't really think twice about those girls b/c I would NOT want to be in my 20's again, and I'd rather have my babies than some hot body. I so love the peace of mind that has come with being in my 30's.

summerbrideDC

oh, honey, I hear that. ?I live in Hollywood, so I am surrounded daily by those skinny, perky, perfect b*tches. ?I hate them. ?LOL

stacynikki

luckyluvr:

I don't really think twice about those girls b/c I would NOT want to be in my 20's again, and I'd rather have my babies than some hot body. I so love the peace of mind that has come with being in my 30's.

Thank you for posting this!  I need to remember that she's probably envious of me as well.  She's been living with BIL for two years now, helping raise his two boys (the oldest being born when she was 15) with no real committment from BIL, still in school with no idea of what she wants to do when she graduates, and is working at a wing place.  She's sweet and she means well but you are right.  I would much rather be where I am with my sweet baby boy then where she is.   

emiliemadison

I think everyone has flashes of "ugh, THAT must be nice" but then we remember that we've been there and done that. I wouldnt trade where I am (and who I am) today to go back to my 22 year old self!!

If anything, I would probably (flame me if you will) pity her. It doesnt sound like she's got much to envy except her body