he didn't come to the office today after he said he would for our meeting. he called and said that he wanted to have a discussion with my sister and me. I told him that I wanted to speak to him alone, and that my issues with him were my own and didn't involve my sister. And that if he wanted to have a discussion with her he could do that seperately or after we talked privately.
He sounded angry, upset, scared, and really pissed. I just got an email saying to meet him at a restaurant for lunch tomorrow. I told him no, that I would prefer to meet in the office. This is not the conversation to be held in a public place over food. I'm standing my ground girls.
Nearly everything I've done for the last 10 years was to ensure that I wouldn't have any regrets after he's gone. To know that I've done everything I possibly could. It's time to start living my life for me. Today is Day 1. Tomorrow is D-Day. Thanks for your support ladies. I know I can do this. My mantra....Be professional, no emotion, and state the facts.
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I will be thinking about you tomorrow. Good luck-I know you'll do great!
You hit the nail on the head. This is EXACTLY what he's doing. Fortunately, I'm on to his tactics, and I will not tolerate his intimidting behavior.
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Kerrin it sounds to me like you are doing the right thing by standing your ground and standing up for yourself.
I wondered if you had heard of the Cox Family Enterprise Center at Kennesaw State University? I do not know a lot about the services they offer to family businesses (I took one family business class in business school), but they may be able to assist you all in working things out if that is the route you choose. Good luck to you tomorrow!
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Just catching up on these posts but wanted to say good luck tomorrow! Sorry this is getting dragged out. I know I'd want to get it over with too.
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Kerrin, best of luck tomorrow. ?You are doing the right thing and your approach is dead on. ? ?I hope you get what is best for you tomorrow (either good resolution with your dad/boss or the realization that its time to move on.)
I will be looking for your update tomorrow. ? ?