So the birthday party went off without a hitch! Thanks to all the warm wishes from our Nestie friends. DH's Dad and stepmom came and left without incident. There were so many other people there that I thankfully didn't have to interact with them at all. I just handed them the baby and walked away.
On a side note, I'm a little bent out of shape because neither of DH's grown and married siblings called or sent birthday wishes for Geneva. Like I need one more thing to complain about his family...
Re: Follow up: First B-day Drama
DD- 9
DS-6
c/p- April 2016
missed m/c- 6w5d; discovered 8w2d- September 2016