4 years already... Our marriage has been so hard lately. We just seem to not get along very well, and it stinks. We used to get along so well. I think we are both so stressed, with work (MH's hours were cut), the girls - but at least they are sleeping and that is helping a lot. We should be able to start taking some time for each other after the girls are in bed. Warmer weather too will help, sounds silly, but I always feel better with sunny, warm weather.
Re: Its my anniversary today
Oh, happy anniversary. (I always get that damn 80's song in my head, "Happy anniversary baby, got you on my miiiiiiiind"
I'm sorry you are going through a tough time. I hear ya. And it's not silly, warm weather DOES make everything better.