my two dogs are going to be so mad when we bring two babies home. they are used to being the center of our worlds. i know there are things to do to help them, but still i cant help but feel a little sad for them because it will be a big adjustment for them no matter what we do. my poor furry babies.
Re: mad dogs
I don't know about dogs but I have three cats. My cats totally follow my lead with people. I coach my friends and family on how to talk to them to illicit the most affectionate and friendly reactions (they are total AWs) and we never have a problem.
I think that animals will sense your feelings and you need to be sensitive to theirs. Send a blanket home withe the babies' scent on it (you will need two) so that they can be prepared for the new additions.?
I have two small dogs and I am terrified about how they will feel when I bring a baby home. I guess I have to start giving them less and less attention. Maybe that will lessen the blow when the time comes...