A few of the below posts really touched me...with the adoptive parents letting the birthparents help choose a name. That is so incredibly sweet.
I had recently decided I'll most likely change my fost/adopt baby's name (after adoption of course), and now I'm feeling a little guilty.
Here's the issues that defend me changing the name...tell me what you think:
The reason I'd feel guilty is because this birthmom is the one who brought this miracle into our lives, even if it wasn't by choice. Also birthmom has been nice and respectful towards me. I feel like I owe her in a way.