Updated Details of SIL....

htomeo

Not what I wished for. I am mean, but did not wish it this bad for her. She ended up losing a lot of blood and went to the hospital. She is still there now. Baby is doing great. Tore her a new one.

And yet MIL is still insisting on her not seeking western medicine. SIL hemoraged, and passed out twice at the birthing center. MIL and the mid-wife did not want to take her to the hospital right away. She ended up having seizures, and they had no choice but to take her into emergency. They are lucky, they may not believe in western medicine, but it may have saved her life.

dawnzer

They actually waited until she started having seizures?!? ?Wow.

jess1984

AS a mom I couldn't imagine not wanting to help your child in anyway possible even if it did mean western medicine... she had to siezure before they took her to emerg... and the midwife went along with this? Really? Wow. I knowthey aren't your favorite people, but maybe your sil will be nicer to you after this ordeal.

houndbaby

that's scary

beany14

holy helll that realy sucks! i cant believe they didn't want her to go to the ER!  So i'm guessing they sisnt want her induced and thats why she went so long! Which probably contributed to her prolems yes?

htomeo

beany14:

holy helll that realy sucks! i cant believe they didn't want her to go to the ER!  So i'm guessing they sisnt want her induced and thats why she went so long! Which probably contributed to her prolems yes?

Yes.

beany14

htomeo:

beany14:

holy helll that realy sucks! i cant believe they didn't want her to go to the ER!  So i'm guessing they sisnt want her induced and thats why she went so long! Which probably contributed to her prolems yes?

Yes.

Wow

::shakes head::

buckeyethor

i cannot believe the midwife let it get that far. that is unbeliavable.