Omg, my husband is so lame..

skinnursemandee

this is going to be a long pregnancy, i must say.

I was just laying with my head in my husbands lap and he said, "hey why dont you turn your head around and give me a bj"

I promptly told him no. Then said, why dont you do that to me instead.

His answer!!

"no, im afraid a foot might come out"

How lame is he??  anyone else have a husband afraid to do anything sexual?

operaapril

OMG!!!! That is soooooo funny!!! Gotta love men!

imaPrincess

hehehe, yup, my dh has made many comments just like this one during the past few weeks.  I should probably throw the poor guy a bone...I'm the one that's scared, lol, poor dh hasn't had any sexual pleasure since we got our bfp...and it's been a while now...lol.  I was all up for it the other night, then I fell asleep and had the spotting issue yesterday, so now he must wait again before I let him near me...I guess I could do something for him though...poor guy!

SmallandNeedy

AHAHA! That's almost cute. Was he really serious? DH and I have been more "active" than ever after BFP (not that it's a turn on, but it hasn't hindered the fun in any way). Just show him some research that says it's fine or have your doctor explain it to him at your next visit. Wow, too funny.

LitlSara

That's so funny. I'm just picturing a tiny baby foot kicking DH in the mouth. lmao.

firsttogo

With our first, we had a lot of bleeding, then placenta previa, so we were on "complete pelvic rest" for the WHOLE pregnancy. When asked for a BJ, I would tell him we are not in High school, and I am not drunk!

skinnursemandee

He is serious, I told him hello the baby does not have feet yet and you couldnt touch it if you tried.  He is still a no go.  I give him a few more weeks of no sex and he will change his tune.

*iLiAnA*

LMAO!!!

I feel bad for DH...we are not allowed to have intercourse, until further notice.... (

 

jennifer_h_rn

firsttogo:

When asked for a BJ, I would tell him we are not in High school, and I am not drunk!

LOL!  I am SO stealing this line!

MattsWifey<3

um no. dh still loves sex and getting sexual. i also have no issues giving him head. we enjoy being intimate.

skinnursemandee

We enjoy being intimate too, its just the little issue of multiple miscarriages that makes him nervous.

 

ameya

Whoaa!! I'm definitely lucky in this department, my guy has a thing for pregnant women so he's already in hyperdrive (the fact it's spring doesn't help either) so we're still as active as can be with my bouts of nausea. He can't get enough, really. How far along are you? I'm sure with some men it might take some time to be able to think of a pregnant woman sexually (depending on the guy) but just show him a diagram showing how very far away baby is from his penis during sex, let alone his mouth at any point! Make him do a little research (or do it and show it to him) to let him know it's all in his head, therefore he can get over it

 

 

caholland

Did you remind him of the whole gag issue going on in first trimester? He might change his mind after that! Lol!

nuttybunch

Yup. The whole time. At first he thought he was going to hurt it. Then he was afraid of putting his wiener in the baby's face.

I have had the LONGEST pregnancy EVER! Sex once a week, then less. It has been 2 weeks now and we probably won't have sex until after the baby comes. Then we'll have to wait our 6 weeks, so about 2 or 2 1/2 months total.

WHATEVER YOU DO do NOT tell DH when baby's head is down. After my dr told me baby was head down, DH freaked out. Now my dr said she can feel the head when she does my internals, so DH won't go anywhere near there. He doesn't want to poke baby's head with his penis. Whatever.

MaybeBabyTime

im the total opposite. i was so freakin tired yesterday...and DH had the NERVE to say....."so...lets do it".and I actually got angry!

ju.vanderw

DH was more gentle at first, and we only had sex about once a week for three weeks after we found out.  After that, especially after we heard the heartbeat, our sex life went back to normal...  I'm wanting it more than I used to before pg.

Maybe things will get better and more comfortable once you hear the heartbeat and know that the baby is safe!