So sad for co-worker...

ashleyb0604

Last week I found out a co-worker was also pg and due three days after me. She miscarried yesterday and I'm so sad for her. They were trying much longer than we were and were so relieved to finally be pg. It also makes me feel even more paranoid about losing this baby

hbkises

That's really sad and I'm sure it'll be hard for you to be happy about being pg at work.  We have a girl at my work that found out she couldn't have kids right about the time I got my BFP so it was really hard on her.  I try not to talk about it too much with her cause I knew it was hard. 

As far as you being worried, you can't worry like that. It's not apples to apples. Try to enjoy it and not think about it, I know it'll be hard.

DiscusCoach

Oh how awful. I am so sorry. My SIL should have had a baby a few months before us and she miscarried second tri.
If you have questions on how to handle this situation I would recommend asking in the TTC after loss board. They have been very helpful to me in figuring out what to do and how to be as sensitive as possible w/ SIL.

Bsgirl143

I know the feeling, my supervisor at work lost her baby at 33wks a few weeks ago...I'm not sure how it will be between us when she gets back to work in a few weeks. I'm being transfered to England in May, so the plan is just for me to take leave before she comes back to work. It was brought forth that she was unconfortable coming back to work while I was still here...which is totally understandable..but its still hard...