Every time I get one in the mail it makes me cry. On top of the painful reminder, the anesthesia bill was itemized as an abortion procedure. It really broke my heart. It's such a little thing, but they are different to me... I lost my baby.
Thank all you ladies for sharing your stories. They help me not feel so alone.
Re: Bills coming in for D&C
-m/c at 11w2d due to partial molar 2008 -m/c #2 2009
Beautiful daughter born February 2011
**Ultimate TTCALer 2009**
I got yet another one just last week -- for my D&C in OCTOBER. I called the insurance company IRATE -- not because I wanted to contest the bill, but I was like, "seriously, is there not a statute of limitations on when a doctor can go, 'oh yeah, I need to bill this woman -- I almost forgot!'"
My current pregnancy was an "oops" after I lost the twins, and I think with it, I had to just push back all I was feeling and trying to process about my second loss.
When these bills come in, it just reopens a wound that I don't have time or energy to let heal right now.
I SO can relate to your frustration.
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bfp #1 - 12.11.07, edd 8.14.08, mm/c 1.21.08 (10w4d)
bfp #2 - 4.4.08, edd 12.3.08, mm/c 5.14.08 (11w)
bfp #3 - 8.3.08, edd 4.15.09, mm/c 9.17.08 (10w)
bfp #4 - 1.15.09, edd 9.26.09, mm/c 2.16.09 (8w2d)
bfp #5 - 6.16.09, edd 2.25.10, mm/c 7.23.09 (9w)
bfp #6 - 8.12.10, edd 4.27.11, mm/c 9.16.10 (8w1d)
one more try -> bfp #7 - 2.11, our miracle baby boy arrived 10.11
ttc again -> bfp #8 - 5.3.13, edd 1.13.14, mm/c 5.30.13 (7w3d)