I've been lurking on these boards for ages and I really thought this was our month but instead I'm in the process of miscarrying for the 3rd time (6 weeks and my betas are falling). We're absolutely heartbroken and devasted, especially since this is occuring the same week as my first due date (which seems like a cruel joke). My ob is having me get an ultrasound on Fri to confirm the miscarriage and also wants to draw blood to determine if there's something wrong with me (e.g., clotting disorder, etc). We've been trying for a baby for 10 months. I'm 34 and, quite frankly, I don't wan't to waste any more time or lose another baby. My question is, how do you know when it's time to switch to an RE? How do you even find one (we just moved to a new city). What sorts of tests will an RE do versus a regular OB? I know these questions are probably asked very frequently, but I couldn't find any similar threads. Any insights you have would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance.