Another sex FAIL

CantWaitforBaby

Ugh, I'm so mad at myself.  DH tried so hard last night to be sensitive and sensual, kissing me and really trying to "woo" me, as opposed to his usual "wanna get it on?" type of attitude.....anyway.....if I weren't pregnant it would have worked like a charm, but these damn hormones prevent me from getting in the the mood whatsoever, and the whole time I just couldn't wait for it to be over, and once again I started crying after we were done, which has become the norm for me...it's so frustrating! I want to enjoy it and I feel so bad for DH! Only 2 more months....

mommy411

I know its awful!!!! Poor DH was joking that he was going to get it on the street...So I said ok great Ill give you money!!

Mrs.C042807

I feel your pain.  I would love to know who is actually wanting and enjoying sex in 3rd tri.

LGMHRS

Sorry about last night but I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only one that cries after!  I think I get so frustrated and feel bad for DH.

Roosky

Oh you poor thing.  It will get better. 

J&MsMom

I had the same thing last night. I just wanted it to be over.  Just a few more months.

Noelle2375

I am actually really enjoying it right now and cannot seem to get enough. We have to get creative with the belly but I find that everything is more sensitve so the O's are way more intense. I told DH he better get it while he can cause I dont know when this will end! haha

Jennywren82

Wow, that sucks! Maybe you two just need to hold off. I wouldn't feel right if I cried afterwards every time.

We are completely the opposite of you though. DH doesn't ever want it, and I can't get enough.

Just an FYI, the first, and last time DH did it with me and didn't really want to, I could tell and it was the worst sex I had ever had in my life. Your DH may be feeling the same way when it comes to the two of you.

I told DH to never do that again, and that I'd rather not have sex at all then have bad sex that he didn't even want to have.

Good Luck, and don't worry, it will get better eventually.?

AlwysAwsm

Awh... poor you and poor DH. We had a similar issue last night. It was the first time he initiated anything in weeks and I turned him down. He doesn't understand my hormones. The worst part is he kept waking me up almost every two hours for it. I feel really bad. Hopefully tonight will be different.

Jennywren82

Noelle2375:

I am actually really enjoying it right now and cannot seem to get enough. We have to get creative with the belly but I find that everything is more sensitve so the O's are way more intense.

Ditto this. I don't know why, but its super sensitive down there, so it doesn't take much.

DH is having a hard time with the "idea" of baby being so close, so I think that as long as he doesn't see my belly or have to touch it, he's ok, if you know what I mean.?

FutureMcClain07

Mrs.C042807:

I feel your pain.  I would love to know who is actually wanting and enjoying sex in 3rd tri.

I'd be one of those people! Even though I may not be in the mood - once it starts it feels so good that you don't want to stop. Plus, the surge of hormones is good for the baby too! We've found a great position that is really comfortable for both of us so I think that has a lot to do with it too.