VENT: DH taking DS to Lying about being sick mom today

Lily82

Two weks ago I posted about my MIL lying about her daugher being sick. Well, though I am still mad about it. Dh doesn't think it's a big deal bc we found out from my SIL before we left and didn't get go. So he is bringing him to there house today and I can't help but be freaking out. I know I should just trust DH but that fact that he doesn't care she lied and doesn't even cosider it a lie since we didn't actualy go to the house. I also asked him not to keep him at their house too long bc last weekend we took him to a friends house and he was over stimulated after 2 hours. He said I was dramatic and he is going for four hours. I know I can't do anything and I just need to let go but a part of me just wants scream.

BecauseICan

You don't need to let go, your DH needs to grow a brain.  #1 he should be pissed that his mother lied about someone in the house being sick.  #2 your baby wasn't overstimulated, he was t-i-r-e-d.  Babies this age need a lot of sleep, not to be jostled around for everyone's entertainment.  And after 4 hours today, it's probably going to be even worse.  You and your DH need to sit down and have a rational discussion and set some ground rules.