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DH felt the pressure

Last night that is.  I told him I wanted/needed some lovin' as I think I'm getting ready to O.  He was feeling the pressure and couldn't finish.  I felt so bad for him.  Now I know not to tell him when it's so close to O, I'll just have to seduce him!

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    Awe, poor guy!  Yes, just jump on him without giving the O deets...
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    poor DH, we have been there
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    I hate it when that happens (for more reasons than 1!).  
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    ooh no... yeah don't tell him! poor thing! lol
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    That happened to my DH for the first time yesterday morning...I hear ya, I felt awful!  He asked me if it was O time and I didn't want to lie (even though I didn't want him to feel pressured either).  Now for his sake, I wish I would have fibbed.  Reassure him that he's not alone!
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    We've been there too.  They definitely can't handle the pressure.  Kind of sucks because I know I have a lot harder time with the knowing too.  At least I can cheat w/ a little preseed.  Not only do you miss an opportunity when they can't perform, they really do feel pretty low when they can't.  Poor guy
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    Yeah, we have been there more than once.  It sucks, cause you feel so bad for him, he feels terrible, but inside I am really upset that we missed an opportunity.  I know, I am a bad person Sad

     

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    We came THIS close to being right there with ya last night. I swear, DH is a trooper. He got it done but let's just say it wasn't one of his best productions.
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    Yeah, we have been there more than once.  It sucks, cause you feel so bad for him, he feels terrible, but inside I am really upset that we missed an opportunity.  I know, I am a bad person Sad

    You're not alone....I was extremely bummed last night.  I tried to be all casual about it not being a big deal, but inside I just wanted to Crying.  I know it's not anything he can control, so this morning I do feel bad about feeling the way I did last night.

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    imagepinkitty:
    Yeah, we have been there more than once.  It sucks, cause you feel so bad for him, he feels terrible, but inside I am really upset that we missed an opportunity.  I know, I am a bad person Sad

    You're not alone....I was extremely bummed last night.  I tried to be all casual about it not being a big deal, but inside I just wanted to Crying.  I know it's not anything he can control, so this morning I do feel bad about feeling the way I did last night.

    It's the worst when you have to act like it's no big deal, and make him feel ok, but inside you just want to scream!!!!!!!!

     

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    yup DH and I have been having sex for about 7.5 years, and just since TTC we've had that problem THREE times...:(
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    You definitely aren't alone.  We have been there at least once every month since TTC.  Never happened before.  I can't even seduce because he knows something is up.  I have to make him feel like sex is his idea then he's comfortable. 

    Poor guys....like pp said, at least we can carry on even if we aren't 100% in the mood.

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