god i know how u feel. my mil just holds ds and comrs up to me and sticks his butt in my face when he needs to be changed. i go "are you trying to tell me something, mil?" and she goes "i think he needs to be changed" and i go "ok great go change him." and she looks at me like a deer in headlights. so of course i change him. and then when i'm done she comes back up to me and holds out her arms bc she wants to hold him again. and i go "nope, you lost your holding the baby priveledges when you wouldn't change" all while laughing. she totally thought i was joking. but i wasn't. whatajerk