DC suggests that we bring her in underwear and they will deal with any accidents. My sister (who has PT'd 2 kids) says this is a really bad idea - that accidents really upset kids.
DD is going occasionally, but we really haven't 'started' to much at home. But want to now.
Re: PT? Pull-ups or underwear?
I think it really depends on the kid. When I first put DD in underwear and she had a bunch of accidents, it really upset her (but she was very young, closer to 2 than 3), so we went back to diapers and finally pull-ups (when she grew out of her cloth diapers).
Now that she's older, the accidents in her underwear don't bother her the same way.
I'd try the underwear to see how it goes.
That's WHY it's a good idea - they have accidents, they don't like it, they don't go in their pants anymore. (that's the general theory anyway)
With pullups, it's the same as a diaper - they absorb so much of the pee that the kid never feels uncomfortable and wet.