I've never lurked over on SAL before today.....

BeckyS1211

because so many girls are moving over there! 

It's soooo crazy great, but I feel like TTCAL might start to feel a little lonely.

Anyone else find themselves lurking???

Mia07

I wanted to, but don't know if I could get over the jealousy lol.  I want my BFP too!!!!

cour10e

Yeah, I do that more and more lately as I am here longer and more girls move over. It is bittersweet...I am glad to see they have found the light at the end of the tunnel, and I like to see how they are doing, but at the same time I feel like they are "cheating" on us when I see a familiar name posting over there, LOL. I know that sounds ridiculous and I really don't mean it in a jealous ex-lover way...it's more like when your best friend in elementary school suddenly finds a new, more popular crowd to hang with and you are stuck behind...know what I mean?

I agree, between all the awesome BFPs, and those taking bump breaks, I am wondering if TTCAL will slow down significantly...  

waitingforbaby#2

I did once and regretted it

BeckyS1211

cour10e:

Yeah, I do that more and more lately as I am here longer and more girls move over. It is bittersweet...I am glad to see they have found the light at the end of the tunnel, and I like to see how they are doing, but at the same time I feel like they are "cheating" on us when I see a familiar name posting over there, LOL. I know that sounds ridiculous and I really don't mean it in a jealous ex-lover way...it's more like when your best friend in elementary school suddenly finds a new, more popular crowd to hang with and you are stuck behind...know what I mean?

I agree, between all the awesome BFPs, and those taking bump breaks, I am wondering if TTCAL will slow down significantly...  

That's exactly what I mean!  I couldn't be happier for any of the BFPs....I guess I'm just jealous and really want mine

vera1127

Well I hope you don't mind if I stick around here a little longer. While I'm asking some questions over there, I'm still not ready to go there yet. Plus, I want to wait for you

BeckyS1211

coraandmike:

Well I hope you don't mind if I stick around here a little longer. While I'm asking some questions over there, I'm still not ready to go there yet. Plus, I want to wait for you

awwww hugs to you Cora! 

I don't want you guys to leave!  I mean I do, but you know what I mean. 

I truly hope I get to join you in a few days....my temp went down a hair this moring, hopefully it's back up tomorrow. 

You're the best!

racer88

I was lurking over there the other day too - they seem pretty sweet over there as well...probably because there are so many of "us" over there! I hope they're saving spots for all of us!

lil_rhody

I'd been lurking for a while, mostly to remind myself that it is possible. I always find hope in that board.

ibis

I have to confess... I lurk on SAL when I'm feeling optimistic and envisioning myself joining them too. I tend to go back to the PL board when I'm feeling pessimistic and like I'm still stuck in m/c mode.

moonpalace

I do lurk.  It give me hope.  : )

gallerygirl

Becky, I used to feel that way and the longer I was here, the harder is was to lurk on SAL. Especially once some ladies I was on there with in October moved to PAL... Hopefully you will be making the switch soon, but as you will find out, many SALers lurk and will still check in on their friend quite often. GL in the next couple days!