Jennywren

rouge411

I accidentally clicked on your name, not your last post... and your profile story made me cry. I bet your DH's mom wanted you two to have a happy memory attached to that date.

Still crying.  

Jennywren82

Aww thanks. We miss her so much around here, and it has been so hard on DH. I hope your right about having a good memory. DH's first year without here was so rough, and it all happened in our first year of marriage, so I really was unsure about how to be supportive.

I just hope that delivery goes well and DH falls completely in love with whatever we are having. Even though our child will never meet her, they will know that they formally graced us with their presence on the day we needed it the most.?

Now I need tissues! =P?

rouge411

Argh had it under control now crying again! My dad passed away almost 7 years ago... I met DH about 8 months afterwards, and he helped me a lot although I think he was lost about what to do. We got to tell my grandma that I was pregnant on my dad's birthday, and that made me feel good about it.

I'm sure your DH will adore the baby, and what a great story to be able to tell him or her!

Jennywren82

Sorry to hear about your dad. Its nice that you had DH there for you when he came into the picture. I can totally relate to him. I went around asking everyone, including his sisters, what should I do?

Everyone said that I was doing as much as I could and really there was nothing else I could do to make it easier.

I hope he eventually realized the same thing. If you ever find yourself in his position of being the supporter, just remind yourself that you can't grieve for him, but I'm sure you realized that already.