I work for DH and I use his email (it's actually my account that he stole) and it's up on our home computer 24/7. (and before I get flamed he knows I check it and likes me to so he doesn't miss anything while painting and such).
I saw that a friend sent us up some new pics of our house in CR...I saw the earlier email from him and it said that he would like for DH to come down in May for a couple of weeks to help do some more work on the property...Didn't think anything of it except our friend is obviously hard of hearing b/c DH told our friend that there is no more money for awhile since all the partners are strapped right now but the new email is discussing DH's b-day trip in May. This is news to me. I really could give a sh!t less if he goes or not, but we have no extra money right now and his parents are expecting us up North three months in a row...I posted about this the other night.
I'm also a bit po'd b/c he told me we can't afford to go on a family vacation even just a weekender right now b/c things are tight and he's seriously thinking he can take off work (he works for himself so there are no paid vacations just paychecks when he works) for two weeks in the middle of busy season????? WTF? I'm not even going to approach this one with him. I hope he knows something that I don't... Gotta love men and their dreams.