About the tone of my post over there, here's the thing: on these flame free things, I have seen some AWFUL things posted - things about women cheating on their husbands, ignoring their kids, and then there's the general sniping, etc.
I posted in the flippant way I did because, partly, I wanted to get a
rise out of them and partly because I've seen gals post even worse
things just as casually. Things like, oh ha ha, DH held DD in his lap
on a moving jet ski. ?? Seriously? So, in the spirit of that, I
launched with my full-on flame free Friday confession. And a wry/dry sense of humor does not translate in printed text.
Stuff like that is akin to throwing chum to the sharks. And I got the full frenzy. I'm not really offended or upset with the death threats over there. I can't say I didn't expect a few gasps and shrieks. But my confession was just that, a confession. Taking G out of her carseat wasn't right and I don't plan on doing it again. She was crying and hungry and I fed her. FWIW, I didn't even think about leaning over her car seat to feed her. I don't think I realized that could be done.I also posted yesterday asking what I should do about a friend with a 11 month-old facing front in a car seat. I was horrified and requested advice for how to approach said friend. But no one appeared to remember that post...