Anyone who read my earlier post...

FutureHardings

My supposed to-be MIL keeps texting me... telling me not to listen to his ex, he swears up and down that he didn't see her... blah blah. I feel like I'm stuck in a bad soap opera. On the one hand, I know for a fact he kept talking to her behind my back, and so we're done. Period. But on the other hand, I hate that some stupid bit-ch would have the balls to email me about all this, and rub it in my face and add lies... I know she did, because not all of her facts were true.

God help me... there will be a pregnant crazy lady in Pittsburgh tonight, going to blow something up.

FutureHardings

She is now yelling at me... telling me her son is not a horrible person, he just makes bad choices. And that it isn't so wrong that he talks to her. I need to get a life.

sxu0007

He is a mama's boy. Move on, you are better off. Trust me. I finally left my ex and my DH is wonderful w/my daughters....and believe it or not, support from your parents is enough to get you through this rough time.  You don't deserve it.  You deserve someone who treats you well and if he can't just be honest about his ex, what else is he lying about.

amzingblonde03

If only we could have alcohol while pregnant.. I would hand you the biggest margarita ever! Good luck dear.

MidwestTexan

Oh, honey! I read your original post this morning and I wanted to cry! I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. Stay strong and positive, and hopefully everything will turn out for the best. My heart goes out to you!

Choco80

Ex-MIL-to-be is completely nuts. ?I cannot believe she's trying to do your exes work for you. ?The problem clearly was not that he wanted to see his ex, but that he kept communicating with her despite the fact that he told you he would not anymore. ?This is all about trust more than anything else.

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I'm really sorry you have to deal with this now.... I hope things become better . . . ?

robynlesley

I also read your first post and feel so badly for you. I second the poster who said he sounds like a Mama's Boy. I almost married one and am so grateful that I did not. When a MIL interferes in everything, it's not a good sign.

Of course I have not been in your shoes, but I wish you strength and all the best. Do what's best for YOU. In the end, what's best for you is also best for your baby.

belladee08

Try and stay strong... Good luck with everything...

jaxgev

I'm glad to see you back on here today.  Frankly, you seem like a strong enough woman to me.  Tell him and his mom to eff off.  You don't need ANY of their drama.

Soon to be Mrs. Topper

I'm so sorry you're going through this! GL!

SteffaniO

I read your post this morning and I'm sorry you have to go through this. I've noticed that mothers of guys like this tend to make excuses for them and that's probably how the guys ended up like they are in the first place. My real dad used to beat my mom - while she was pg with me, and in front of me when I was a baby. His mom made excuses for him all the time - "Oh, men are just like that." "He doesn't mean it." "He loves you, he just doesn't know how to handle his anger."

He's a POS and his mom doesn't want to admit it because he's her "baby boy." You've made it clear that you can't trust him and he's made it clear that he doesn't really intend to change that. I'm so sorry you have to be a single mom but I know you'll find the strength to be a good one. You have the support of your family and definitely of all of us here.

~Soleil~

Why is she even involved? This is between you and him. Tell her to STFU!

CrazyChef

=( Sorry to hear you're going through all this too.  Decided to come read your post after you commented mine about it.  I agree with the pp's, if he's lying about that, he's probably got more cards up his sleeve you don't know about (yet).  And I'm betting that between being the strong woman you seem to be, and the hormonal b!tch we all sometimes have to be, you're going to make it through this just fine. 

Message if you need me, I'm here for you as well.