2nd Trimester

How often are you doing it?

I know this is a terribly personal question and I would love to make it a clicky poll but I don't know how. ?

How often are you having sex? ?Have you been doing it less or more often than prepregnancy? ?Are you making out more?


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Re: How often are you doing it?

  • We're all over each other like we're dating and I constantly feel like having sex but it quickly passes before we can make it to the bedroom. ?We're down to just one time a week now. ?I'm always in the mood in the mornings but feel like I look terrible and I'm always too tired at night.
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  • Not at all since September.
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  • Early on, we probably did it once a month. Now its getting better, if the three times in the last 24 hours is any indication ;) We were fiends before we got pg, so I'm glad things are starting to get back to normal.
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  • On average, about 2-3 times a week. Which is actually more than pre-preggo life. I feel like it a lot more and lately it's him that's too tired. lol.
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  • Less than pre pregnancy, mostly because I feel so crappy all the time. I'm patiently waiting for that 2nd trimester boost of energy and nausea abatement that I hear so much about. But still lots of cuddling, I could never feel too crappy for that!
  • Only a handful of times since getting pregnant, but we weren't very frequent before getting pregnant either (once a week, if that). So, less than before, but that's not saying much.
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  • Like once a month now, poor guy : ( but I try and help him out as much as possible without actually having sex. I feel like having sex a lot, but actually having it is sooo uncomfortable right now and not enjoyable at all.
  • We haven't at all.  I was too paranoid in my first trimester (and had a few weeks where my Dr. said to do pelvic rest) and then just the other day I read a post on here from a girl who delivered her baby when she was in the early 20 weeks because sex brought on labor.  Made me scared to do anything.
  • About once a week, or a bit less.  DH is still *eyeroll* afraid of hurting the baby, and I'm frankly just not in the mood very often, so I shoot him down a lot.  And, a little TMI, but I can't always get comfortable in any of the positions that are... available to us with my rapidly growing bump. 
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  • Less than before we were pregnant, but it's getting better as time goes on.  Now the problem is finding a position that I'm comfortable with.
  • We haven't had sex since Christmas.  Poor DH.  But the doctor said we can't because I have Placenta Previa and I bleed if I bend over never mind any kind of sex type movement.  We have our big ultrasound on March 11th and then we'll find out if it's cleared up or not.  In the mean time, extreme pelvic rest.
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  • hardly any at all - like 2 x since I have been pg. It is really uncomfortable and kind of hurts so I would rather not bother.  But it's on 6 weeks after this baby comes out.
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  • Pre preg,  at least every other day. 1st tri it was whenever I felt like I might not hurl, maybe once a week.  Now we're getting back to every other day or every 3 days.  I am having a hard time finding comfortable positions, but we work it out...
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  • We did it way less at first but at the moment it's every other day.  I'm not really turned on more, but when he goes for it I'm just more likely to go with the flow for some reason.
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  • we havent at all since nov. ?no sex drive since BFP
  • We have once since November and it was awful for me.   I am NEVER in the mood and I NEVER feel good so sex is the LAST thing I want!!!  Feel bad for my husband but not sure I can give in and go through that again!

  • Well...we did it twice yesterday...  However, last weekend we did it every day too.  Usually it's just on the weekends when we are lying around in the morning. 
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  • not so much....last time was three weeks ago. It isnt too comfortable, but I do feel like it!! Hopefully it gets better soon, cause I'm starting to feel better
  • We still do it pretty often like 3-4x a week.  We used to use condoms pre-pregnancy so this is a rare treat for him ("condom-free" as he calls it).  I can't stand the smell of him right now so we can't make out.  We just get right to the sexin'.  I often have insomnia so I wake him up at like 3AM for a go.  Good stuff.
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  • Only once since BFP. Yikes... so it's been almost 2 months. The problem is I have zero, zilch, nada sex drive.

    I have only been on the pill once in my life for 6 months... and it killed my sex drive so I got off of it. So I'm thinking that hormones are to blame. I've heard it gets better in 2nd tri... I'm early into it but so far, nothing.

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  • During the first few weeks I was too paranoid but now it is 2-3x a week.  I want it more now than I did prepregnancy. 
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    I am always in the mood in the mornings but feel like I look terrible and I'm always too tired at night.

    He could and would get it every morning if he was a morning person, but alas, when he is ready I am usuallt exhausted...

  • we go at least once per day........but my RLP hurts in certain positions....which kills the fun for me.... 

  • We're averaging about once/week, which is about the same as it was pre-pg.  I'm definitely in the mood more often now than I was pre-pg, mostly because I had been on BCP for so long it was affecting my sex drive (or nearly depleting it as the case may be).

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