not so innocent ....comments

audreyp

So, I really REALLY hate the looks and comments I've been getting......

 

yes, I AM pregnant, not chubby.......I do look 14 but I AM 27......and I AM married........blah

 

anyone else getting comments by perfect strangers.......? 

lennonlover

I havent' had any comments yet, but I get looks.  Especially since my wedding ring doesn't fit now, so people assume I am 18 and unwed.  I just want to scream, I am 26 AND married....so stop looking at me funny!

Neudorfer

ya, i don't wear my ring to the gym and i get lots of looks- it sucks.

i've even gotten disgusted looks from guys before too... hello, i'm pregnant, its not a gut people!

CubsGirlNYC

not really comments from strangers but I am getting sooooooooo tired of my co-workers looking me up and down everytime I see them.

 Yes - we haven't seen eachother in 2 days, yes I am still pregnant, no I don't really look any different than the last time you saw me. Uggh

alison1020

I don't get comments but on the weekends I roll out of bed, pull my hair in a pony tail (which makes me look about 12) and do my errands.  I feel the stares at times and feel the need to justify myself but then I realize that's just giving in to their ignorance. 

It is frustrating after awhile though!

mrsrandalltobe

All the time. I'm just trying to ignore it now.

peachypear

Neudorfer:

ya, i don't wear my ring to the gym and i get lots of looks- it sucks.

Ditto. And the other day I bought a crib off craigslist and DH couldn't come with. The sellers looked so concerned (I also look about 18) that I kept mentioning "my husband" and "my masters degree" which seemed to calm them down. Sometimes I wish I had a sign that said "I am 27. My loving husband is 38. We are financially stable. Mind your own business."

Power to you single mamas out there!