Trying to Get Pregnant


Hey there!!! My OB told me to wait one that's what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna start temping when I stop bleeding. I'm hoping the next month flies by!!! When can you start trying again?


"When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible"--Harry, When Harry Met Sally

Re: **xnbride**

  • Hi,

    My OB doesn't usually dictate such things especially since I am just letting things happen naturally but she may.  Last time she didn't but she may have something different to say this time.  If I had a D&C I think it would be different though. So hopefully I will be able to pass everything naturally.  It is very different than my first m/c so I guess we will see how it progresses.  I started spotting on Thursday evening and so far it has gotten progressively heavier, so that is very promising.  I should be about 8 weeks and most of the literature said that is usually when you miscarry with a BO as it is around the time I would have expected my period (I have very long cycles).  

    I guess we will just wait and see how I feel about everything.  I may not be psychologically ready to TTC for a few months or so.  Like I said I didn't ovulate post m/c last time so I figure that the same thing will happen until my body is ready. 

    I don't chart though but I have learned alot from reading TCOYF and recently I noticed that my boobs get sore around ovulation time so that is a pretty cool indicator for me since I don't get EWCM (TMI I know but for some reason I just felt I needed to share Whisper  That never happened before but it happened both cycles after my IUD removal.

    I am just surrendering control over to God. There is such a God story behind the conception of Ethan (in my bio if you want to take a look) and I am 100% confident that He will turn this into something wonderful.  I have already made such powerful connections with you ladies so that has been one amazing blessing from all of this!  I had never heard of a "blighted ovum" before but it is amazingly common and I know that God allows me to endure painful trials so that I can offer the same comfort to others that He has offered to me.  I will continue to move forward and focus on the promises of God "But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently" Romans 8:25. 

    Good night and keep me updated!!!  




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