Thanks for your input to my previous post. I really appreciate so many of you opening up about what works for you. And, of course, opening up that you, too, find it hard to connect at times.
DH and I tried the "in-house date night" last night and it was really nice (ds was really helpful as he was asleep by 8pm--otherwise, it would have never worked). I've alreay ordered the two books mentioned in the post, we'll just see if I can get time to read them.
Kiarox, I really liked your idea about monthly resolutions I think I'll try that, too.
Re: Thank You, Everyone.